So Embarrissed. Someone Help!

Ok, so I'm a 15 year old girl right? um....I got dropped off at my house by my mom after school and she was gone to a play thing that lasts like a couple hours. Anyway, I went to take a shower. I got out and didn't bother to put clothes on because nobody was there. So, I decided to take all of my clothes and the few towels I own and my bed sheets and wash em' so I didn't have anything to cover myself. I know it sounds stupid, but I wasn't planning on anyone being there for a while, so I figured it wouldn't hurt to be nude around the house.
So anyway, i'm watching T.V and I soon fell asleep on my bed. (This is off subject, but I have a bf and he always rings the doorbell. It pisses me off becuase I always tell him he dosent have to, and to just come in.) Well, I forgot he was commin over so I was asleep nude He came in without ringing like I asked. Once he got in my room, I woke up because he knocked on my wall in my room.
Oh the horror. I was blushing so bad and started to almost cry. The worst part was, was I never had ANYTHING to cover myself with because they were being washed. So we just looked at each other for about a minuite with me nude in embarrissment.
He didn't have a jacket or anything for me to cover myself up, so we just chilled until my clothes got done, which was about 25 minuites later. So, I chilled with him with NOTHING ON for that long. I was sooooo embarrissed that when he left, I cried. So, should I talk with him about what all happened? I didn't when we were waiting for my clothes to wash and dry because I was soooooo embarrissed and blushing, I couldn't. So, what should I do now????

 

Why would you be embarrased? If you enjoy being nude or something of the sort, he should understand this. Call him and just let him know its something you enjoy doing

 

I completely understand how embarrassing it can be to be naked. Is it that you are ashamed of your body, insecure? Or do you just not like being naked?

 

No, i'm definately not insecure. People tell me i'm beautiful/hot (or w/e) a lot of times. I don't mind being nude with nobody around, but if someone sees me, I get sooo embarrissed. I guess its because i'm shy? IDK but its one thing for a family member or something to have seen me, but my bf??? What should I say to him because I literally had to stay nude for a good while with him

 

like i said just talk to him about it... I know inkshrink personally ( my gf) and weve experience this before... just talk to him about it

 

Talk to him about it. It seems he took it well, he didn't freak out, or run away, so that's good. Tell him how it made you feel, be honest and open with him, and encourage him to be honest and open with you as well.

 

Ok, but I don't have to do it face ot face or anything right? I mean, I could like say it in a text or phone or something right?

 

why didn't you guys fuck?

 

Face to face preferrably, but if that's not possible, then phone, let him hear your voice. How long have you two been together?

 

MrDot, that actually came to mind for a second, but im 15 lmao. We've been together maybe only a month and a half. I'll see him at school tomorrow and that's what i'm dreading. That would be the time to say it face to face, but i just don't know...

 

Are you a troll?

If not, well, for a 15y/o to have sex.. that's not uncommon, ya know? If he's a 15y/o guy he's probally annoyed he didn't get some poon outta that!

 

A month and half isn't that long of a time, so you two are still in that "honeymoon stage." You can call him tonight, and mention you'd like to talk about it in person tomorrow, or you can see him tomorrow and pretend like the whole thing doesn't phase you. The more awkward you make it seem, the more awkward it will be for him.

 

My girlfriend and I did it after a month and a half, she was my first as well, that was 7 months ago. :]

 

Really? Then I may just have to consider that next time i'm nude with him by accident (which won't be happening by ACCIDENT anymore lol). Um, I may do that InkShrink. It's pretty late right now, so I may not call him now. I'll try to avoid the situation by not talking to him about it, but I wonder what he thinks of me after that situation. Scince we haven't been dating long, ima little nervous of what may happen...

 

Well, if you're not ready.. You're just not ready, don't jump into sex, but me? I was ready. I've been talking to my girlfriend for the past 2 or 3ish years, I've liked her a LOT for half that time and she had the same feelings for me but nothing was ever done about them.

Don't avoid the situation, if he likes you, he WONT CARE. Just an odd mishap. Ha

 

Yeah, I guess. I'll see if he talks about it first (He probably won't) If he dosen't start the conversation, I guess I'll have to. But IDK what to say at all. I know i'll be blushing and sttutering when I talk to him.......

 

I mean, it's one thing to be sorta nude, or to cover up real quick, but it's another thing when you didn't have a strand on you, your bf gets to see the breasts, butt, and the vagina (sorry, i couldn't think how I could word that lol sorry), and I couldn't even cover up!!

 

So what you're saying is, ALL your clothes, towels and sheets were in the washing machine, and you had NOTHING at all to cover yourself with? Just want to get that straight.

 

Unfortunately yes I didn't figure anyone to be home for a while so I had nothing

 

If it's difficult to see him face to face, express your feelings and emotions in a note. Send it via email. Then when you see him face to face, you'll know he has a better understanding.

However, this reminds me of a recurring thought. Why are we so hung up on nudity in this society? I've often thought it's merely the presence of clothes. We're so used to being clothed that being naked seems out of the ordinary.

Imagine a society where no one wears any clothes and no one feels any shame or embarrassment about it.