Oi, companheiros! Dear friends, have you ever asked yourseves why smart, handsome inellectuals are unliky in love. Your examples, considerations, even death threats are welcommed! atenciosamente Didi
There is way too much importance placed on looks in society. Even people that say looks don't matter generally fall over themselves for the pretty people.
here you can see a perfect example of an intllectual - Anatoliy Wasserman. The cleverests scientist of Soviet Union and todays Russia never have been married. He proclames himself to be still virgin
Or maybe the smart ones do know that size doesen't matter. And their dumb, illiterate adversários never use they brains to get a girl, contrário to smart who confesse their feeling in such a long, exalted, redundant manner that smart girls scatter in all directions from them
It seems to differ per smart guy. Not all smart guys that are unlucky in love seem to be so because of the same reason. Why?
dude, you said HANDSOME intellectuals if that is your idea of "handsome" then that may be the problem right there.
If you are enthusiastic about something mindnumbingly academic and a 3/10 should you be with a girl also interested in something tediously academic with glasses and bad skin Just saying
It's completely normal. There are a finite number of body types and a finite number of personality sets. In animals the drive is programmed. Evolved humans still hold to some of this, but also seek a position, low middle or dominant along intellectual lines AND emotional lines. But the automatic aspects creep in nonetheless. Not every woman out there is looking for the rebel without a job type. But most of them still want a taste of that. Same as guys who would prefer a stable situation, but that word has a duality of implication. He might want stability, across multiple women. Or he may want the occasional rental slut. Or he's just a male hoe-bag out to pork anyone who sits down to piss. There is no way to encapsulate this issue into a simple go/no-go test like this. People are too dynamic. Learn to communicate with women and things might change. Otherwise, I suggest investing in at least 1 rental encounter a month just to keep you sane!
The big question for me is why can't us guys who aren't smart, or handsome, be lucky in love. Here's my death threat: I'm going to kill a bottle of beer if someone comes up with a really good answer.
I'm brilliant and the sexiest man on the planet. I'm not so smart when it comes to girls, though. I am thirty-four and just now realizing that the more girls seem to hate you, the more likely it is that they just like you. It took me a while and will do me no good. Or maybe I just fill everyone with loathing and hatred. I suppose it would be quite easy to go out and find a girl and get laid, but it would be a sloppy, sloppy affair. I feel no compulsion to have embarrassing sex like everyone else probably does. To make a long story short, everything is pointless and girls have cooties.