Maybe you will have the anwser to my problem. Lets get things straight, I've been left back at school. And last year I was in a great class, I loved it. But now... Well, I really, really hate it. And, it's not that I have to get used to it, I really hate it. Let me explain my situation. My niece is in my class, and the problem is, she always follows me. Even when it's reses (sp?) she doesn't leave me alone. She says that she wants to be friends with all of the people that I know, and that the people she knows are boring and stupid(her exact words). But she's been to our school for 3 years, and last year she didn't follow me. But she says that she's my friend and she wants to take care of me and all that... I have tried everything to get rid of her. But, I don't want to be rude you know, I don't want to fight with her. And, she is always trying to make me feel guilty if I don't talk to her, or just be with her. She really NEVER leaves me alone!!! And, I'm kind of afraid to go to another school. I don't know what to expect from it. I would like to go to an art school, but I'm afraid of going there all alone. And then I wouldn't see any of my friends anymore... Damn. I have no idea what to do. Well, I thought that I'll post this in the old hippies forum. You have more experience, and maybe some of you can give me some advice to get rid of her... Any help would be welcome. Thank you.
but I'm afraid of going there all alone. maybe your niece is scared too.You have to take care of the ones who take care of you.Stop sniviling and realize how lucky you are to have a friend.
Some times you have to be cruel to be kind. (almost sounds like a song ). If she a friend, she should understant. And about another school, what do you have to loose? If you don't like it there, give it a try..
Thanks for the advice. I don't think she is scared though. I mean, she knows all of the people in our class, almost every hour we have classes with her "friends" that she doesn't talk to anymore. And I really don't mind if she sits with me in class and all that. But in every school that I've been, I've had problems with her, she was always in my school. When I was nine, I had just found my best friend and we were always together. My niece wanted me to be her best friend, and she didn't like it that I could get along with my best friend better. So she accused me of something that I didn't do, and she lied about it. And she said alot of stuff to me in front of the school that weren't really nice. If you know what I mean... And then when she was thirteen , she was best friends with this other girl, and she was always mad, I mean really, really mad that her best friend used to hang out with other people. There was this huge fight. And well, the friendship was ruind. I always try to be nice to her. It's hard to explane this... By the way, I'm going to a different school. So acctually, my problem is solved. Sorry for the trouble, and sorry if I sounded like I don't appriciate my friends, I love them with all my heart. But my niece is my niece, not my friend. But she is kind of forecing me to be friends with her. I don't know if I said this the right way. But there are no troubles anymore! Sorry for the long post.
