Hey every one I’m new here so I’m still a virgin and my fiancé is as well we are waiting for marriage 3 months to go but I’m so nervous Because my erect size is just. At 5” and my girth is 4.6” I’m so scared that I can’t please my women she said she doesn’t want me to go down on her when the time comes so idk what to do
1) If she is a virgin, then she’s likely never seen an erect penis before up close. 5 inches is just about “average”, so she’s not going to think you are small. 2) Pleasing a woman sexually has more to do with doing the things (right motion, right spot, etc) that she finds pleasurable. Dick size is only a small factor when it comes to the overall experience. 3) Most women get off easier from clitoral stimulation than vaginal penetration. If she doesn’t want you to go down on her, then you need to ask her why (especially if you want her to reciprocate). Oral sex is very enjoyable, and a normal part of foreplay for most people.
U r right she only seen an erect penis online. And what about my girth size? does that play a big part. and I’ve asked her why she doesn’t want me to go down on her and she says because it’s just weird.
It always seems weird to someone who’s never done it (or had it done before). But eventually (as a married couple) you’re going to get bored with the status quo and have to try new things. I’m pretty sure anyone that’s ever had oral sex performed on them before grew instantly to like it. Your girth is also in the normal/average range. Most women say that girth is more important than length, but that’s also women who’ve actually had experience with more than one man of different sizes. If your girlfriend has never felt a penis inside of her before, then it might hurt a little the first time. Then she’ll get used to your thickness.
I think the best thing you can do is listen to the answers you have been given. Along with, and most importantly, stop getting worked up over it. Most women get turned on(or off) before you even get into bed. Be kind to her, treat her like she is the queen of your world, etc. then when you get her in bed reinforce those feelings and put her needs before your own. As has been said many women don’t have an orgasm through vaginal penetration. If you can slowly start stimulating her clit, her boobs.... you get the idea. It takes a while for two people to get to know each other sexually. Enjoy the journey!
I'm a PROUD five-incher and a virgin. I have a loving girlfriend and she has expressed that the size wouldn't be a problem. She's held my penis, sucked on it, and found there wasn't any issue. The moral of the story is, I wouldn't worry about it. Find out why she doesn't want you to go down on her. If she has a good reason, respect her wish. That's all I can say.
SOURCE A: The average flaccid, pendulous penis is 9.16 cm (3.61 inches) in length; the average erect penis is 13.12 cm (5.16 inches) long. The corresponding girth measurements are 9.31 cm (3.66 inches) for a flaccid penis and 11.66 cm (4.59 inches) for an erect one. http://www.sciencemag.org/news/2015/03/how-big-average-penis SOURCE B: Researchers went through 17 studies that examined the penis size of more than 15,000 men. They found that the average flaccid penis length—from the base to the opening on the tip—was 3.6 inches and the circumference, measured around the base or mid-shaft, was 3.7 inches. When erect, average penis size swells to 5.2 inches in length and 4.6 inches in circumference. Science Reveals the Average Penis Size. How Do You Stack Up?
Losing belly weight does tend to augment the appearance of penis length. So does trimming/shaving pubic hair. But to be honest, I think you’re fine.
That is a total NON-issue. My penis might even be smaller than yours is when flaccid, but it's never caused a problem for me. It's better to be this way than to have a 4 inch penis that only grows to 5 inches upon full arousal. Besides, I'm not exactly skinny these days either, and I have a girlfriend, gorgeous girlfriend for that matter. And she and I met AFTER I gained weight, so it's really not about how fit you are, nor is it about how big your dick is. BUT, it's never a bad thing to try to get fit. It's good to be healthy.
Yea I used to be at 192 now I’m 250 but my fiancé said that she didn’t care what size it was either. she a thick lady as well I’m hoping that I will be able to please her not just by oral but with my penis. I think most of my fat pad is covering my penis I’m wanting to loose it so bad
Well, also keep in mind that the G-spot is located about two, to three inches inward from the vaginal entrance, and also vagina generally has been observed to be more sensitive toward the opening than closer to the cervix, anyway. So it's more of a matter of getting into a healthier lifestyle(which is definitely easier said than done, I know!) rather than worrying about the size of your penis. Maybe both of you can work out together in ways so that the experience will be enjoyable rather than a chore. In fact, how about exercising naked together? That wouldn't be a very bad idea, if I do say so myself, lol. You can have fun while losing some poundage in the process. But that aside, what DOES help in terms of pleasing your partner in bed is learning about the female sexuality, both in a general sense and your partner's specifically, as well as your own for that matter.
I have another question (sorry) But this is for the other guys that’s my size 5” erect and 41/2 girth do u all have trouble slipping out?
