Slut shaming isn't sexism

To pre-empt the hysteria:

1. In cases of rape, the rapist is 100% responsible for his actions regardless of how the victim was dressed.
2. A woman has the right in Western society to dress provocatively.
3. There is an unacceptable double standard between the way promiscuous men and women are treated.

With that said, I'm sick of reading garbage like this:

http://feministcurrent.com/6845/its-not-slut-shaming-its-woman-hating/

http://www.pinkisthenewblog.com/2012-10-25/actress-olivia-thirlby-says-im-a-slut-and-im-proud-of-it

When did it become a positive trait for people to live their personal lives with such an emphasis on base carnal desires?

Being boastful of sluttiness is like a fat person bragging about how much they eat every day. It's like a heroin addict smugly talking about their drug use while fishing a five dollar bag of powder out of their butthole.

Yeah yeah, I understand that people are allowed to pursue things that are pleasurable but there's no dignity in being a glutton, an addict, or wondering who the daddy is after the five-guy gangbang.

Loud-and-proud sluts make me nostalgic for separatist feminists. They had the courage of their convictions. Too many modern feminists want to use the label as a shield from any and all criticism and are eager throw out the insult "woman hater" when somebody is understandably disgusted by their immature desire to consume a plentiful amount of dicks.

 

Modern feminists are out-of-touch female supremacists and more than a little nutty.

Yes. We know.

 

Lol, we couldn't have had more opposite perspectives. I think women's utmost desire in this day and age is to cocktease, control, and milk a man. They couldn't give less of a fuck about sex. Sex is just what they use as a bargaining chip. They will go through the most physically painful lengths in order to hold back on sex.

Those 3 things: attention whoring, possessiveness, and golddigging. Those are the 3 that'll automatically put you in the woman-hating category if mentioned. Those are precisely the things that feminism considers beyond criticism and "generalization", yet they are exactly the 3 main pillars of feminism today.

Not nearly enough sluts in the world, yet they all behave as such for attention-whoring's sake. If only I had a true slut for every girl who acts and dresses like one...

 

and this is your first post................. tell us about yourself and where you're coming from

Simon :sunny:

 

Just sounds like a case of MPD

(Micro Penis Disorder)

 

comparing an active sex life to a damaging drug addiction or eating disorder betrays a very unhealthy attitude towards sex.

"slut shaming" is sexist because it betrays widespread societal prejudices against female sexual agency. identical (and even aggresive), sexual behaviors or attitudes in male individuals is encouraged, in fact, it is seen as reinforcing their masculinity, whereas femininity is seen as being only reinforced by passivity and chastity.

identical actions
earns respect for the male.
earns insults and "shame" for the female.

no sexism going on here...

 

Presumably, the OP is just as bothered by men who fuck multiple women. But he magically fails to mention it in his post.

Yeah, I'd say MPD.

 

i had an inkling he might forget when objections to his position automatically incurred the descriptor "hysteria"

 

Well, that's actually the part of his post that I identify with.

The woman-hater card today is used to hysterical levels, IMO. Much like the race card (this, coming from a black man) or any other PC card.

Most women's views seem so skewed, that if you don't put them on a pedestal right away or treat them exactly like you treat men, you are unflinchingly labelled a woman-hater.

 

I love how this forum is just constantly filled with people who hate feminists... very strange. If feminism offends all of you so much, why are you wasting so much energy talking about it?

We get it, you think all women are manipulative monsters Cherea but do you need to write about it constantly? It is just getting boring at this point.

In response to the thread, I am generally turned off by either men or women bragging about having a lot of sex with a lot of people. I just don't find it an attractive quality in either gender personally.

 

To try to find some answers among all these information about the dramas which take place in India. I have had a look at forums and feminist website.
Here is maybe the most dense Article I was lucky to read. You should learn about the roots of the phenomenon and the reasons that are slowing it down!
http://xxxtravaganza.com/i-am-a-woman-therefore-i-am/

 

i wouldn't consider myself a slut by any means, but your analogy between heroin use, and a love of sex, is ridiculous. ridiculously extremist viewing of such a situation.

what is immature about wanting dick? i don't want a plentiful amount, so i understand the difference, but surrendering to your carnal desires isn't a negative thing by any means. its an instinctual part of who we are.


all of your examples in this post were ridiculously extreme in their ideology.

 

Thats right girl, we should be able to sleep with whoever we want, whenever we want, wherever we want and what some man thinks about it don't mean a thing!!!

 

agreed. dicks can get dirty just like a vagina can. (everyone should practice safe sex if they have multiple partners)

but thank you, shananique.

 

Que Back Door Man's entrance.....

No wait, I think I can get this one for him.

THAT'S WHY PUSSY IS THE WRONG HOLE, AT LEAST ASSHOLES ARE ALWAYS DIRTY, LIKE THEY'RE MEANT TO BE, ANAL WHORES ARE THE ONLY WORTHWHILE WHORES.

Amidoinitrite?:sunny:

 

I seriously laughed out fucking loud because of the way you said that. Good shit man, good shit. xD Laugh out fucking loud. I don't know why but that was funny.

I think that the reason there is a double standered is because for a guy to sleep around with multiple partners they have to actually work towards sex and spit mad game to get there. Literally all a female has to do is be there and willing. Females don't have to work towards the D and spit mad game to get the D they just gotta say that they are ready.

But...What do I know? I don't really get around and I've been single for forever as well so admitidly I'm probably talking out of my ass.

 

You can say that again

 

Wow, you seem so classy, I can't believe that you are single! Oh wait...

 

I'm the most classiest motherfucker you ever did meet and don't you forget it Can't nobody fuck with my swag unk:

 

How is it woman hating when females themselves are the ones doing it to other females?