Over the past few years (well, ever since I hit puberty) I have been looking for a girl that I can relate to and get along with really well and have strong feelings for her. Well, seven years have passed and all I have to show for it is a handful of failed relationships with either bad timing, bad people, or bad situations. I really don't have much trouble talking to girls, I just have the worst luck, even outside of relationships (I won't even start with that). With all my friends having girlfriends around me, and me being the third wheel constantly, I am getting bitter towards almost everything in that domain. And just last night, my buddies were talking about how nice being single is so they can look at other girls and talk to them and hit on them and shit. I seriously felt like I wanted to punch one of them, because I don't think they realize how good they have it (well, in some ways). All in all, I just feel that I am slowly just being that jealous guy in the corner that doesn't get laid, and that doesn't have anyone. I just feel like I'm living the lonely life, and it seems that it just won't change.
ya just gotta keep trying it's shitty, but everyone gets turnd down/has stuff not owrk out. Eventually you'll find someone who's right for you
It is not going to stop until you STOP comparing yourself to your friends. Take a closer look. Despite them being your friends, what did they do or what are they doing to keep their women with them? I'm not suggesting they're jerks or any of the sort. But perhaps somewhere along the way, YOU've made the decision not to do what they're doing. Perhaps for the better. Women aren't stupid and they sense very strongly when there's something not right with a guy. Most do anyway. And a lot more ignore their gut feeling. If you're not ready for a relationship, it will show. If you want a trophy gf, it will show. If you want her for the sake of having a gf and something basic to "have and to hold" similar to a blow up doll, it will certainly show. So get out there, find hobbies, make friendships. Always expecting something more can be a bit creepy. Not suggesting that you are though. But god knows it happens without us knowing sometimes. All the best.
is it that you want to be in a serious relationship or you just wanna get laid? cause man you're only 21 go have some fun :X just live in the moment, long term will catch up to you eventually hahahaha
