Simultaneous Orgasm?

I'm sorry if this is common knowledge but I wasn't sure so I thought I'd ask. How common is it for a man and a woman, who are making love to each other, to experience an orgasm at the same time? I've heard that men will sometimes reach it faster than women. I personally think simultaneous orgasm would be the best because then the man and woman could get equal enjoyment.

 

Im not sure how common it is really... but i think that its mostly about being in tune with your partner and communicating.
You can get eachother really close by teasing and all that and then decide to cum together.

 

Exactly what peachy said. It's entirely do-able, you just need to coordinate it right. If one person tends to orgasm faster than the other, they get a head-start by whatever means they want... It's not always possible to synch it just right, but I think a good rule too is that if both people are really close, the excitement of one person's orgasm is enough to set off the other. Nice perk that way.

 

I had that once. It was awesome. Both partners going at the same time, it's an amazing and very special experience.

 

Yeah man, simultaneous orgasm is VERY rewarding for the male, because you can feel her orgasming while you do, and it usually requires the guy to go through a couple cycles of stopping for a few seconds when your about to nut, then starting up again which ultimately leads to a more intense orgasm in the end. Or if you wanna go without stopping, you can think about something someone/gross or something when your about to bust, but the problem there is that it doesn't always work when your inside a girl and if it doesn't well...you just nutted thinking about someone gross...

But yeah, best bet is the stopping/starting again deal, haven't you ever done that when your beating off to get a really intense finale? Same deal.

 

This almost always happens for me and my boyfriend. It's like mine triggers his.

 

easiest way to do this is teh old DonkeyPunch. works every time.

 

A women has to lead, what I mean is she has to take control and only allow a man in when she's ready.

I takes a lot of foreplay by both her and you and then finally after some time (a long time) she will (when she is ready) allow you to enter.

If its not done like that it won't work because you'll ejaculate before she has the orgasm.

Only she knows when she is on the threshold of orgasm, and thinking about it now, I remember getting the onset of what is called "lovers balls" (a painful experience when one is extremely aroused but not able to ejaculate), so to answer your question yes it is possible to orgasm together but I hope your prepared to go the distance, because despite what most say orgasm is allusive and very rare.

 

This is so true.

When a women is close to orgasm she'll let you in and then her orgasm will ignite your climax like a powder keg.

If she is close to orgasm (she'll know) and she inserts your penis.

As you thrust in and out you'll notice her vaginal barrel start to constrict around your penis, its this quite intense pressure or constriction and the ballooning at the base of her vaginal barrel that will send you into orbit, you won't even have to thrust anymore the pressure alone will cause you to ejaculate inside her and take your breath away.

One thing I noticed is that initally your mind will really freak out with the constriction, so just bare that in mind for when it happens - just go with it and nature will take care of the rest.

 

Absolutely. I think it comes with being with the same person for a long time. You sort of sync your orgasms.

 

Pretty rare, the guy usually cums before the girl gets a chance. Though I think a lot girls pretend their climaxing at the same time the guy is.

 

The average guy sees ejaculation as the pinnicle of male sexual arousal, for those that are prepared to go the distance you will experience something on another plateau ....

 

Its amazing how many people forget to mention, and practice, 4play. The only way the 2 are going to hit the wall together (and roar straight through singing 'haleluia' in 2 part harmony) is by him going most of the way along route 4play. That includes working up the nipples, kissing her in all the exciting places, exploring her vulva with finger and tongue and keeping his cock outta there 'til invited in with a 'now' or 'oh glory' or 'quick!,' etc. Geez, now I'm all worked up and gotta get a date tonight - or go to bed early........

 

Amen! :Angel_anim:

 

My beau and I always do it, but I love the feeling of him getting close so he sets me off.

 

It's not common, in fact I believe orgasm is very rare.

And a very intense orgasm is even more rare.

I think the trick is for the women to lead, when I say this I think the man would have to use a lot of effective foreplay to elevate a women to the threshold of orgasm, and then and only then should a man enter the woman.

If its not done like this, the man will ejaculate before he enters her, so if you have what it takes to endure foreplay and ultimately real orgasm, then you may just get to that ethereal place that so few will ever experience.

A few posts back some other post jogged my memory and I remember having what is referred to as "lovers balls".

Its quite a painful experiece for a guy to have to endure, but its soon fixed by penetration and finally ejaculation.

I remember way back when I was fortunate enough to experience first hand what it is like to be on the end of a womens orgasm.

It was humiliating to caress a women for what was hours on end only to be pushed away.

I persevered and finally she allowed me to enter her( the one thing that i had forgotten about that night was that I had the beginning of "lovers balls".

In hind site it was a night I will never forget.

No matter what people tell you about orgasm it is real and probably one of the most incredible things you will experience.

There's a special prize for those that are willing to take the long road to experience what it is like to be on the end of a womans orgasm.

 

And I'm sure ANY women that doesn't like sex will instantly change for the better.

Come friday she'll be grinning like a "cheshire cat" and begging for it.

 

It is somewhat rare, as 70-75% of women cannot orgasm from intercourse alone. So if you are lucky to be in that group who can, and you have an experienced lover, you might be able to time your orgasms so they happen simultaneously. When I was younger, I had a lover who could orgasm easily, and we used to put on the Beatles' song "Come Together" and try to time our orgasms to the line "Come together, right now, over me". Occasionally we succeeded, and it was great. (The verse comes up four or five times in the song, so if you miss the first one, back off and try for the second or third ones.)

 

this happened for the first with my current boyfriend and it's amazing........ it happens once in awhile now. i usually cum first which is great. he's by far the best lover i've ever had. anyway, he says that when we cum at the same time it's because he can tell i'm about to cum so he holds off on his.. the other day he said he was thinking, "wait for it, wait for it..." and then when i came he finally let go.

 

oh, and right, most women can't orgasm from intercourse alone, unless they know how to work the clit at the same time. woman on top is easiest for that, so she can grind it against him, (i'm sure this is not new knowledge to anyone...) but really any position can incorporate clitoral stimulation...