Simple question: Any ladies who don't like getting licked?

I was chatting with a female friend of mine and she mentioned that she doesn't like getting her pussy licked. That floored me. But I guess it's possibly. Are there any other women who would rather not get their pussy licked during sex? Is that not a form of foreplay?

 

Haven't met one yet

 

Me either. A few have been reluctant, not understanding some men love to eat pussy. Afterwards most enjoyed the experience. None ever said so but I suspect some women are hesitant because they thought I would expect reciprocation. Some women just don't like sucking cocks.

 

4thtwin: Nice weather huh?

her: Yea, finally.

4thtwin: This bus is late.

her: [shrugs]

4thtwin: Do you like getting your pussy licked?

her: No, not really.

 

I've only ever met a handful, after a bit of convincing they'd all give me a chance and then very much enjoy it.


When asked why they were reluctant all had the same answer, they'd had guys go down on them in the past and be just terrible

 

My fiancé... until we started talking about what we liked during sex. since then... she’s told me it feels really good and there hasn’t been no objections!

 

I had one friend who didn’t care about it and I thought it was degrading. While I respected her opinion I could not understand, especially that you took pleasure giving me oral.

Second time we met I asked her and she said she didn’t care for it. Way later I still wanted to give her oral but I say tried to understand she was getting upset so I dropped it.

 

Years ago, I got carried away having sex with my wife. It was one of those mind-blowing sex nights. After some hard pounding missionary, I just lost my mind I guess, held her arms apart on the bed forced her legs open with my chest and just burried my face on her kitty and had a buffet. Apparently I left finger marks on her forearms. Been doing that for 18 years now ... *uck > eat > *uck > eat and sometimes if I feel she's misbehaving (not being a good girl), I'll give her inner thigh / labia or clit a little slap. Drives her nuts. I don't ask her or even give her a choice. She is not in control, but she trusts me. But if I DID ask, she would have said she doesn't like that. Her mind and girly parts think differently.

 

I have dated a few women who didn't want to be eaten. They always seemed to have some psychological issue(s).

It never lasted with any of these women - somehow they always found a way to drive me away or sabotage the relationship, even though I would with great reluctance agree to their prohibition against oral (both giving and receiving).

Nowadays, no oral would be an immediate deal breaker. Life is too short for that nonsense.

I'd rather be with a woman who would make me lick her pussy clean every time I fucked her than be with a "no oral" cold fish.

 

I haven't tongued the pussy of every woman I've known carnally but of those I have they have enjoyed it with a caveat. That caveat is that they were receptive to oral at the time. Sometimes a woman isn't in the mood and would rather give of themselves to please their man. She'll stroke cock, suck cock, fuck cock, all for him and his orgasm and be totally sated without wanting or needing one herself. I've asked, sensing something amiss as I lapped away, and she has said 'I'm don't need you doing that.' or 'No nothings wrong, I'd just rather feel you in me.' Her responses have been along those lines and she's eager for me to enjoy her body and satisfied that she causes my orgasm and ejaculation. She likes the special closeness and sensations involved in holding me during intercourse and seeing me engulfed in my orgasm that she was a part of.

 

I met a Spanish speaking stewardess from Aeromexico in Puerto Valarta. I began going down on her and in broken english she kept saying, "I have shame." over and over again and was pushing my face away from her pussy. I said I love shame. But she said NO. I didn't care if she was on her period. So we only fucked.

 

I'm guessing she's just never had it done properly was all.

 

Some guys are terrible at it. Find he a guy with skills then see what she says. Having my clit sucked absolutely blows my mind it's hard not to beg for it...and I'm not much of a dirty talker.....um would you mind sucking on my clit again please for like a couple of hours lol?