Should you tell?

So, say you're at a concert and you see a guy from across the way, he notices you, you notice him, you play coy and pretend you don't see him when you walk by him. He seeks you out and finds you...alone...and starts talking to you.

After a little while, you casually mention you find him INCREDIBLY attractive.

How would you guys react?

Girls...what if the shoe was on the other foot?

 

err. i would leave out the "incredibly attractive" part, best just to give him your phone number or ask for his.

 

You wouldn't like a girl to tell you she thought you were attractive???

 

Not necessarily as soon as we started talking. If she gave me her number or asked for mine i would get the idea...I don't know, sometimes,for me anyway, someone coming on really strong could scare me off a little.......depends on the situation, but for me its usually best not to know for a fact that a girl is WAY into me right away. I'm sure other people are different. I just think it might be wise to keep playing a little coy.

It would definitely be flattering, but if someone was trying to have something more long term than 1 converstaion, it might be better to hold off at least a little bit

 

I find honesty to be the best policy. If someone feels a certain way about someone else, they should just come out and say it. Keeps from having to guess how the other person feels.

 

But if you make plans to meet again or get a phone number its already made clear that you have some interest.

 

Oh...dear...

I am afraid there would be some serious fornication going on in a short period.

 

what if you say " your awesome " or something?...

 

I'd say you'd get a very good reaction. I've no problem with it. I often wait for girls to make the move actually. It means I'm more likely to be going with an equal rather than a coy demanding stereotype. (sweeping generalization disclaimer! )

The only drawback i'd see is that you're setting off from shallow foundations. If what you want is a one night stand that shouldn't matter though.

If you're wanting a bit more respect then perhaps you should wait for the man to say it first. We do have the 'shallow' stereotype in society and would more likely get away with it.

*by shallow i don't mean something that has less validity, just a more basic urge to the proceedings rather than platonics.
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Just seems to me if a guy seeks YOU out...and you give him a compliment like that...he should feel REALLY good!

 

yup, makes a nice change and does feel very good

 

i know i would feel good its a compliment and i would like it

 

Libertine is right, if you want to have immediate sex, that is the right way to go, if youwant to develop a longer term relationship, you might want to hold off at least a little bit.

 

I live in florida & things are very open sexually, i would not be shocked by you responding to glances, comming over & eventually flirting openly, it is quite the norm here, i would respect you being a confident female in your actions.

 

well, when I was single I would sometimes get creeped out that a girl was going to get too obsessive over me if they came on really strong in a certain way....unless i just wanted to fuck...thats what i'm trying to get at here

 

I would be a bit embarrassed, in a good way. I definitely would give you my number and set up a date out of it. Flattery will get you whatever you want from me.

 

If I found the guy attractive that was telling me I was attractive...I would REALLY like it a lot!

If I didn't find him attractive...I might be a bit embarrassed that I didn't reciprocate the feeling...

 

I'd assume she was either joking to hurt my feelings or trying to steal my wallet.

 

Awww, no way!

 

If some guy or gal came up to me and told me I was attractive, sexy, beautiful or anything like that and they were sexy, I'd probably be naked and in action pretty quickly.