.. right now, Mimi's having a concert far away from me, but in Czech, so his czech cell phone is on.. should I write him? Or should I wait... but for what..? He won't write me himself.. so what do you think?
oh no.. I didn't mean it like he won't write back.. I guess he could.. he always did.. but I meant like he won't write me first.. I don't know why.. but he's probably such a person...
oh dear... you want to talk to him write hiim. why is it always the guy who has to make the first move? I mean seriously... you like the guy dont hide it... write to him tell him you miss him I'm sure he's going to enjoy that. greg
hmmm... I know what youre saying. You desperately wanyt him to write you, just to know hes thinking of you, and you know you'll know that if you write him, because he'll write back, but you wish you didnt have to prompt him, you wish he just, did it? I say , you should, because you'll go crazy if you dont, even if you feel silly when you do.
Very confused in how this relationship is going / Don't know if this chap is a 'decent' person anymore Is it shyness , reluctance or just 'the way he is' with regards to him not writing to you first.. I notice your threads about this ..and i am not sure if it should 'break my heart' that your so wishing for contact and not seemingly getting much back.. Please 'fill us in' so that i don't keep feeling sorry for you .. jana. Writing too him ..? erm if you must.
ah yeah! That's exactly my situation!!! Yes... so you think I should, yeah...? Ok ok... uuuuf... I go nervous.. ok.. so I will write him.. THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE!
Oh honey, i go throught this everyday with my boyfriend, I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I think I really hate mobile phones, they put so much pressure on people to keep in contact all the time, and they also create so much anxiety, when you write to someone, and they dont write back, at least when you call someone, they have to respond straight away. Awww, *hugs for Jana*
I so much thank you for your posts.. they're really keeping me up... uuuf... ok, so I'm gonna create that message..
Aww, goodluck sweety. let us know how it goes. And dont think too much about what you say, especially once youve sent it , and its been 10 minutes and he still hasnt written back.
yeah, that's it.. I already see how I'm sitting here, being incredibly nervous and looking at my phone...
ehm.. ok.. so I rang him.. but you know, I let it ring just once.. and in a minute, he wrote me "hi janka, how are you? I'm going home right now.. anything new?" and I wrote him back.. and he wrote as well.. like "concert was great, a bit short, but great.. I'm doing fine.. have a nice day, bye " ... aw, you know, REALLY nothing special, but it was so cute... ooh, I'm happy he wrote!