Should I write him?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by JanaXGIRL, Sep 8, 2005.

  1. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    .. right now, Mimi's having a concert far away from me, but in Czech, so his czech cell phone is on.. should I write him? Or should I wait... but for what..? He won't write me himself.. :( so what do you think?
     
  2. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    please, please, somebody write me... it's quite urgent! :)
     
  3. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    24
    Do you mean an SMS text message?
     
  4. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    yeah..
     
  5. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    24
    Go for it, why dont you think he'll write back?
     
  6. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    oh no.. I didn't mean it like he won't write back.. I guess he could.. he always did.. but I meant like he won't write me first.. I don't know why.. but he's probably such a person...
     
  7. kissMeImPolish

    kissMeImPolish Member

    Messages:
    787
    Likes Received:
    11
    oh dear... you want to talk to him write hiim.
    why is it always the guy who has to make the first move?
    I mean seriously... you like the guy dont hide it... write to him tell him you miss him I'm sure he's going to enjoy that.
    greg
     
  8. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    24
    hmmm... I know what youre saying. You desperately wanyt him to write you, just to know hes thinking of you, and you know you'll know that if you write him, because he'll write back, but you wish you didnt have to prompt him, you wish he just, did it?

    I say , you should, because you'll go crazy if you dont, even if you feel silly when you do.
     
  9. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    ok... so I will... they're having a concert since 6.30pm, so I'll write him.. around 8pm.. :)
     
  10. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    24
    write him right now!
     
  11. matthew

    matthew Almost sexy

    Messages:
    9,292
    Likes Received:
    1
    Very confused in how this relationship is going /
    Don't know if this chap is a 'decent' person anymore
    Is it shyness , reluctance or just 'the way he is' with regards to him not writing to you first..


    I notice your threads about this ..and i am not sure if it should 'break my heart' that your so wishing for contact and not seemingly getting much back..

    Please 'fill us in' so that i don't keep feeling sorry for you .. jana.

    Writing too him ..? erm if you must.
     
  12. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    ah yeah! That's exactly my situation!!! Yes... so you think I should, yeah...? Ok ok... uuuuf... I go nervous.. :D

    ok.. so I will write him..

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE!
     
  13. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    hooo... but he's playing right now... and I'll be crazy while he won't be writing... :D
     
  14. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    24
    true, but what if you do it when you know hes not busy, and he still takes ages to write back?
     
  15. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    I never know if he's busy or not.. I guess he's always busy, he's crazy :D
     
  16. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    24
    Oh honey, i go throught this everyday with my boyfriend, I know exactly how you feel.

    Sometimes I think I really hate mobile phones, they put so much pressure on people to keep in contact all the time, and they also create so much anxiety, when you write to someone, and they dont write back, at least when you call someone, they have to respond straight away.

    Awww, *hugs for Jana*
     
  17. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    I so much thank you for your posts.. they're really keeping me up... uuuf... ok, so I'm gonna create that message.. :D
     
  18. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

    Messages:
    3,486
    Likes Received:
    24
    Aww, goodluck sweety. let us know how it goes. And dont think too much about what you say, especially once youve sent it , and its been 10 minutes and he still hasnt written back.
     
  19. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    yeah, that's it.. I already see how I'm sitting here, being incredibly nervous and looking at my phone... :p
     
  20. JanaXGIRL

    JanaXGIRL Senior Member

    Messages:
    3,608
    Likes Received:
    1
    ehm.. ok.. so I rang him.. but you know, I let it ring just once.. and in a minute, he wrote me "hi janka, how are you? I'm going home right now.. anything new?" and I wrote him back.. and he wrote as well.. like "concert was great, a bit short, but great.. I'm doing fine.. have a nice day, bye :)" ... aw, you know, REALLY nothing special, but it was so cute... :) ooh, I'm happy he wrote! :)
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice