Ok so the young boy is coming over tommorrow. (how anal, we schedule sex) I'm feeling frisky but I don't know if the youngun can handle that. What I mean is there is ok-we're-gonna-do-it sex and then there is if-you-don't-bring-that-dick-over-here-right-now sex. I have rules as what I will do when but.......f*ck that, I'm horny. My point is this: Do you think he will be scared or think I'm some kind of whore? I really don't care what he thinks but if he does think that, I'm scared I'll lose my regular dick. Please guys TELL ME THE TRUTH. If a woman is extremely sexually aggressive soon as you start having sex, does it freak you out?
It is a good idea to schedule sex. Otherwise, it is hard to fit it in and scheduled sex is MUCH better than no sex at all. This man loves a woman who is hot and horny and takes over. But all men are different, and you need to read how her responds to your advances. Start by being agressively romantic and look for his body language and facial expressions. Stiff body and frowning face shows he is not going for it. A smile and relaxed body shows he is happy. We men generally make the moves on our women, and we need to learn to read your body language every time we have sex. And you thought being a man was easy!
I've found most men to be receptive, on the rare occassion that I am highly aggressive. Usually I'm submissive, but sometimes, I just... The lioness in me comes out and I have to tackle him. LOL
I would not have a problem with a girl being aggressive, sexually. In most of my experience it's been a mixture. I sure have had fun with the more adventurous ones, though. I guess I'm "switch": I can enjoy being dominant, and I can enjoy being submissive. There is no strong reason to fear that it will freak out a well-adjusted guy. I would worry only if he has some sort of fragile macho self-image/ego thing going on. Only a guy who has preconceived stupid notions about who's supposed to do what will be bothered by you getting all animal on him. A good, well-adjusted lover will be open to all sorts of different types of sexual intimacy. Have fun! Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Its not to late. Whip it good (Sorry had to) Guys are more uh.... obidieant when sex is involved. Just think marrionette
I've decided to go for it. I'm gonna do all the stuff my little freaky heart desires. If he likes it, good, if not, NEXT!!!!