Should I feel bad for rejecting him?

I met this guy only one time about 2 months ago. I said to my guy friend (Jay) that I think that Tyler is cute, but I just was paying a compliment. Well Jay blew this out of per portion he set me and Tyler up, and he told Tyler that I liked him, which is ridiculous. Jay had bonfire at his house and Tyler was there I could tell it all was very set up, cause they made me go with Tyler to go get more beer. Anyways, I am kinda drunk and Tyler says he is scared of the dark and so I stupidly followed him to his truck lol! But again I was intoxicated. Anyways he tries to kiss me, and I said "I don't know you well enough, i'm sorry" He said "You followed me to my truck? I'm sorry I thought you liked me?" I said "I do, but you are around gossipy people and majority of these guys works for my dad, so I don't want anything getting back" He said "I don't think that is it, I think you just don't like me!" I tried to convince him that wasn't it.

So, it got awkward lol! I said I am going to leave and Tyler follows me to my car and says "Can I at least have your number? or you could have mine?" "You are probably not gonna call or text me though" I said "Give me your number" He then tried to kiss me, and I did kiss him but I was not fully committed lol! I did a half hazard kiss, and he says "Cmon" He kissed me again and he was full on tongue this time and it lasted like 3 seconds lol! So he said "I can tell you don't like me!"

It was only cause I didn't know him! Also my dad's workers are there, and they are big gossips, they talk about everyone! I didn't want to be a part of their gossip, but now I think I am cause probably Tyler went back and said I sucked at kissing or something. I feel really bad! I just wanted Tyler to know the circumstances, but should I feel bad? Or was it the right thing to do? Do I seem like a big tease?? Thank you!

Also I would like to add does he sound like a player? I am obviously not the hookup type, but I won't waste my time with him if he is obviously a player. Tel me what you think! Thanks!

 

Sounds like a dense pushy jerk. Get rid of him.

 

i'm confused. so do you like the guy or not?

 

You don't wanna fuck inna truck, then don't fuck inna truck !!
For fuck's sake.

 

What the hell are you asking?

Should you feel bad?

What the hell for? A shitty kiss you didn't want?

It sounds to me like you both dipped on each other because you didn't click. Nothing to feel bad for.

 

just be glad that a certain person whose name begins with a K is currently on ban

 

You shouldn't feel bad, but you should definitely stop using alcohol as an excuse to follow guys you barely know alone at night to their trucks.

Don't let alcohol make decisions in your stead.

 

:iagree:


Anytime someone feels the need to preface a situation that didn't go well with "I was drunk/drinking/intoxicated (insert substance of choice)..." it's usually not a good sign.

 

^^ and on the receiving end I used to get from girls "It doesn't count cos "I was drunk/drinking/intoxicated (insert substance of choice)..." .

It did not make me happy.

 

calm down tuesday
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I have never heard that one, but had heard "So and so took advantage of me because I was drunk" many times when I tended bar. It would almost be believable IF the person who said it didn't make it a habit of going home with strangers when drunk, on a regular basis.

I don't blame you for not being happy about it. That's a pretty rude thing to say to someone.

 

sounds like you don't know what you want

and that he's a total pussy