Hey all, So about a few months ago I started my first experience with an older man. I met him on Grindr and we got together at his place. I was nervous at first but he made me feel so safe and comfortable. He took my clothes and stroked my body and cock. His cock was amazing...thick and hard with a HUGE head, made me a little nervous to try and take it for a first time. His muscles and balls were perfect too. I sucked on it and caressed him for a while...I really enjoyed it and he made me cum harder than I ever have before! So my question is; I still identify as straight because I don't feel any emotional or romantic attachment to him. I feel these however, very strongly with women. I have lots of desires to be with women and hopefully find someone to marry and start a family with. However I know I'm still young and sex isn't going to get any easier the longer I wait. My question is: should I act on these impulses and desires, or hold off on them to see if these are just withdrawals from my gay porn addiction...
My question is: should I act on these impulses and desires? Yes Your young, get as many sexual experiences as possible. It's better to find out your orientation as early as possible before you start a family with either sex you want to spend your life with.
Cool I'll keep that in mind. Thanks so much for your input! And it helps that sex with him would be amaaaaaaziiiiing <3 <3 <3
Yes You Should Act........In My Experience There Is Nothing More Pathetic Than A Man Who Goes Into Denial About His Sexuality........Gets Married And Has Kids Hoping It Will All Go Away. But Guess What.......It Doesn't......So He Sneaks Out At Night To The Gay Pickup Parks And Eventually Brings A Sexual Transmitted Disease Home To The Wife. Then They Break Up And Both Families Hate His Guts......Wrecked So Many Lives Just Because He Couldn't Wait For A Few Years To Sort Himself Out...... Cheers Glen.
Wow that was heavy, I certainly would never want to bring something like that on myself of those I love! Hence my reason and eagerness to get this out of the way while I'm young and free to make choices...I'm pretty clear on my stances on sexuality but I really am just looking for fun I guess lol
Sorry If I Frightened You But I'm Talking From 50 Years Of Experience In The Gay Scene, And If There's On Thing I Hate It Is To See A Young Man Screw Up His Life. We Only Get One Shot At Life......There Are No "Take Two's"......You Are Thrown Onto Life's Stage With No Instruction Book So Play It Cool..... I Wish You Well..... Cheers Glen.
Many thanks! Not scared at all, just eager to get on with my life. Could be some fun experiences coming my way. Thank you for the encouragement
I think having as much pleasure as you can is a good thing. I have had lot's of sexual experiences with both women and men. I don't have any romantic feelings for men but I do like to suck and be sucked by men when I can find one. I even decided to try receiving anal after giving to a guy awhile back. Hasn't happened yet but one can always hope. Just don't commit to a monogamous relationship with a woman if you can't stay true. It will only bring pain and suffering.
