so my name is ashley me and my girlfriend erica have been dating for two years now prior to me she had never been with another woman and when we started dating she was very shy and very uncomfortable with her sexuality for tye first few months she had to be completely drunk before she could let herself be intimate with me and even now she still wants to keep our relationship a secret from our friends and our familys how do i get her to open up i love her and i dont want us to have to hide our love anymore
You can't really rush or push her forward with this it's something that may work out in time or it may never work out for her. The best thing you can do is be honest and supportive and hopeful that one day there is reciprocation. If you aren't going to get what you need you may just have to say goodbye early.
Sound like she is one that just wanted a relationship and isnt even gay Not enough information there, but Ive heard the same thing ten thousand times Both straight guys and gay girls have to watch out for this type, the ones that just want a relationship but dont care who the partner is, whether they even like or are attracted to that partner
Im straight and Ive been guilty of this. I once dated a man because I wanted a relationship and was not really attracted to him. We never even made our relationship official but we were pretty much like bf/gf and I never admitted I was dating him. I just didnt want that information out there. I was ashamed of him. He just wasnt really my type but I put up with it for a whole year. Many times I wanted to break things off but I didnt because we got high all the time off marijuana. So thats probably the main reason. If shes not going to tell anyone shes with you and you've been together for 2 years, you should save yourself the heartache and end things with her. First, you should have a real talk with her. Ask her why she feels that way and if she is willing to step into the light. If not, then you have to make your decision.
