Hello all, I am new to this place and the reason I registered is because I have been pondering the sexual dialogue (Dirty talking) put forward by my GF during sexual intercourse. We've been together for almost 5 years and we have phone sex 60% of the time due to geographical reasons. We are straight and both in our late 30's and recently I/her discovered that she gets turned on to unbelievable levels when she says things that I (the man) am supposed to say. Examples: 1. She says she wants to undress me and rape me and "my penis" with her vagina 2. She says she wants to spread my legs "like a slut" and ride my penis 3. She says she wants to "f" me and make me feel like a whore 4. She says she will make me scream/moan like a girl 5. She says she wants to spank my ass (but never ever mentions penetration) 6. And stuff like, "After you F me, it will be my turn to f. you" (you get the idea) Now, the kicker is, when i experimented along, i said "F. my vagina"....she then asked me to say it again louder multipe times, which made her orgasm extremely quick. Because this is all very strange to me, my penis cannot sustain the erection during her climax. The thing is she is very feminin and usually shy, I am muscular w/ a decently sized penis. So is this normal? what is going on? should i be worried? will this gradually turn into something else? could she be into females now and she harbors lesbian fantasies based on the signs mentioned earlier? i am seriously thinking about wifing her up but i am worried i will be cheated on in the future w/ a girl because of this strange sexual interest. please anyone with similar experience / help / input?
Maybe you should loosen up some and see if she wants to actually roll play. Fantasies are great for both. Try talking real trashy and dirty to her during sex and see where she takes you. Respectfully, don't be a prude to her. It sounds like she is adventurist and in my opinion that is a good thing in a relationship.
You are lucky! I only get to dream of having an aggressive woman like this. That shit is hot, and you should tell your penis to man up and take it. You don't know how good you got it, man!
Are you seriously asking if riding your penis and fucking your brains out makes your girlfriend a lesbian? What is wrong with the world...