My ex would at times say she would bend me over her knee and spank me. Hardly ever happened but i would lay across her for it. She is not a dominant woman i am the dominant one in the relationship. I do want to be spanked and she enjoys getting spanked. Nothing hard or leaving marks or anything like that. So should i lay across her again or say sure you will or just keep wishing? Thanks
Life is short, go for it! My wife spanks me on a regular basis and it relieves stress and makes me love her even more. Always a 'naughty boy!'
Sounds like fun. I remember that my 1st girlfriend I dated, everytime we had sex she asked me to spank her. I asked her 1 time & I remember that pain. Instead of the tip of the belt hitting my ass, she got the back of my scrotum. It was so intense that she made me cum & she quickly sucked my cock & drained me.
My wife spanks me whenever I break the rules or fail to complete my chores. It keeps me focused and makes her happy.
Find some infraction or make one up, and tell her: "I deserve to be spanked for that." She'll either go with it if she's in the mood, or not, but the look on your face when you say it should tell her that you're hoping she'll do it. That, and you can make it a regular part of your sexual play by, after the spanking, doing something she really likes you to do. Positive reinforcement leads to responsive and repeated behaviors.
Why not ask her to spank you? Or subtly suggest it? Spanking is much more popular than golf, and given the number of golf courses around, there must be tens of millions of spanking aficionados. Whether it's soft, medium, or extra hard it can be quite an adventure.
I love it when my wife whispers in my ear, "Do you want me to spank you in front of all these people?? Then behave."
wow!! more context please... is this out in public in a store? or at a dinner gathering of a bunch of your friends? or when just her girlfriends are present? I am a spanker and have spanked the bare bottoms of many lovely ladies, but have never been spanked by a woman. Everyone has their particular kinks, fantasies and methods as it relates to spanking but for me but one aspect for me is the 'embarrassment factor'. Doesnt ahve to be hue, but some element of it. I always enjoy seeing a grown woman who I am about to sapnk (especially for the first time) get a little uneasy, nervous, embarrassed about being spanked... (at her age!), especially if its a 'spanking only' no sex type of affair. I always make sure she ends up with all four of her cute cheeks blushing nicely! Anyway back to the F/M scenario, I think I would love (hate!) to hear a woman firmly whisper those words to me in public "Do you want me to spank you in front of all these people??". YIKES! even if she had no intention to, it would be nerve-wracking, exciting, breath-taking and toe-curling embarrassing to hear her say that within earshot of the pretty waitress serving us, or a lovely group of women we were chatting to, or her very attarctive female friends she knows I enjoy flirting with!
Same for me wife spanks me for stress relief not often enough for me but I do appreciate when I get spanked.
My wife is in charge and I'm frequently spanked for disrespect, disobedience and negligence. I have been paddled the last three nights and put in the corner. It really hurts but I need and love it every time. Im stressed out a lot which always gets me in trouble. When she spanks me it is usually before going to bed naked over her knee. Sometimes in the morning over the edge of the bed as a reminder to behave.
Thanks for the reply. I got a good spanking last night. She makes get on my hands and knees on the couch. Starts slow with 20 on each cheek and speeds up after each 20 she makes me count if I lose count she starts over. After 20 on each cheek she will massage my ass then continue with a total of 20 until she reaches 160 swats God I love her.
It started with my not being careful and backing my truck into a post. Getting the parts and making the repairs caused me to be stressed and I was taking it out on her. Yesterday, i was very short with her when she told me what she wanted for breakfast and raised my voice. I was also cussing while working on the truck and she had the window open and heard me. I was sent to the corner naked until she once again called me to get over her knee. I don't cry like tears running down my face but the sting becomes unbearable and I start begging and winning for her to stop of course she doesn't until she is ready to stop. I was trying to get up but she held me down and delivered the spanking I needed. Truth is I had a much better day today so while my bottom is still sore I am a happy husband to have a wife to keep me in line.
