She refuses letting me go down on her

My girl most of the times refuses to let me go down on her. I don't know is it my ways of doing it or just her mood or anything else?

any suggestions? specially from u girls, what could be the possible reasons not to let a guy go down on u

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VD26xyWewcE"]Chasing Amy Comparing Oral Injuries Scene - YouTube

C/S,
Rev J

 

Could be anything. I don't mind it but wouldn't bother asking for it because it doesn't do as much for me as everything else does. Can't say I wouldn't enjoy it tho. My BF likes to do it so I let him.
Maybe she likes other stuff more, or just has a feeling it isn't natural to do, Mouth on pee pee area,,, some peeps actually think that way. Might be if you do she thinks she has to as well and doesn't like that. You need to ask and see what she comes up with. Might be many other things that get her going ten fold more that she is wanting from you and is shy to say.
I had a lady friend years ago who said she was relieved when she attempted a BJ and her BF said he didn't like anyone going down on him but he liked everything else. It was her right ticket to sex as she preferred it. Sometimes things work out perfect sometimes not.
That video was hilarious!

 

Maybe she's nervous/shy. It used to make me nervous back in the day.

 

I lold sally, back in the younger days gf would stop my progress saying "i just peed" "Im dirty" ..

you need to be persistent. Or hang em and bang em off the edge of bed..

where you can pull out and attack with you tongue before she has a chance to stop you.

if youre good enough in the heat of the moment, maybe next time youll not have to sneak up on rabbit..

 

Some prefer to have their genitals stimulated thru intercourse & not in an a oral way.

 

females (and males) are fickle creatures.
Some of us just don't want close up looking, licking of genitals.
Phobias about smelling bad (think of the off-putting fish jokes about vaginas) tasting bad, that pee is toxic and so on.

My advice is, be gentle, take your time, maybe just try in the shower, but sometimes, it's just not going to work.

 

my gf was the same.. I have no idea what to tell you man. she loved to go down on me, but whenever I tried on her, 9/10 she just didn't want it (before I started too).

Makes you feel kinda weird in a way

 

I agree with Silk. Why not ask her if she is a little self conscious, and if so, suggest that you could put on a blindfold and get the whip cream (not in that order) while she freshens up. Maybe even have a couple of drinks and play music to distract her thoughts.

 

Another thing is a nice warm bath with wine and candles and a licking right after that, hee hee

Or a simple shower together,,, if she isn't shy about that.

 

Your "hee hee" made me haha. yeah, I agree with the shower together.

 

Maybe she is nervous, or maybe it just does nothing for her, oral isnt for everyone. talk to her find out what she would like you to do and what turns her on

 

silk had great advice - but definitely talk to her and tell her how sexy you find her

 

This sounds borderline illegal, and like a total violation, and so so hot at the same time. Whew.

 

thanks guys, the problem is she used to love it and we used to do 69 all the times, but not anymore

 

Has she gained weight at all?

Idk. But if I gained a bit of weight I wouldn't want to 69 with my man, for fear of crushing his face. This might sound exaggerated…just my take.

 

Could it be she doesn't want to take care of you? Will she give you a BJ with no strings attached? If she will then my guess is wrong.

 

That's what I thought earlier, if he does it she would feel she has to so avoid it all both ways...

 

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bad experience or bad smell. ask her what the problem is, if she smells she just needs to go to the dr- it is bacterial and can be fixed
make sure she is fresh out of shower so she feels comfortable, then ask he if you may go down and tell her that you will only do what she asks- NO SUPRISES! be really soft and ask a lot of questions..... patience is the key!