Sharing My Wife

Hello,

I would love to watch my wife with another man and to then join in,

I dont know what it is but it really gets me going just thinking about it,

we have had a couple of threesomes many years ago and i loved watching her suck dick while i do her from behind and then swap the roles,

I have asked her a few times recently ut she is just not up for it, she dont have a high sex drive like myself,

am i just strange or are there more of you out there???

 

No you're not strange VO.

I'm desperate to see my wife with another man and then join in at some point.

It turns me on so much to imagine her sucking and fucking somebody else, male or female.

 

Maybe she is just in a slump. My wife and I have been in the 'lifestyle' for over 25+ years. It's good to take a break from it for a while. Otherwise it's not as fun and exciting. One thing you don't want to do is coerce her. Your relationship is more important than a threesome.

That's my 2 cents worth of advice

 

I agree my relationship is worth a LOT more,

I dont think she is in a slump, i just think she is content as she is not as outgoing as me.

We talk about it often as we have always been able to talk to each other no matter what the situation is and we have been in a few.

I am not even bothered if i dont get to sleep with another women as that is not what i am after (would not say no if the offer was there), it is the idea of watching her that gets me going... would just love it but if she is not up for it i wont push it as i lover her so much, she is my everything.

... but we only live once so i dont see no harm in it

 

I agree totally VO.

I'm really hoping Wifey will agree to it one day. She will talk and fantasise about it, which REALLY turns me on, but won't commit to arranging a threesome.

Like you, I'm not going to push her into it but I'm just hoping, hoping....

 

maybe the 4 of us should get together for some drinks as we both seem to be in the same boat lol (just drinks)

 

It's tough when people change as they get older just advise this has not changed for you. Your aware it has for her and ask why and make sure your not angry you want to communicate and share and grow stronger with no secrets etc. take it slow advise this is something you need or it will fester and blow up later. I had a gf the same I would let her fuck anyone she wanted if we discussed it and had rules (no doggy) that's mine alone kissing no tongue and a time limit of 30 min. Also I would be In The house she loved it and made us stronger her rules were the same but no doggy and no reverse cowgirl that's hers. When I fucked other women Always about trust and communication.

 

I feel the same. I fantasize quite alot about watching my wife with another man and joining in and even a wife swap situation being in the same room sharing our wives. My wife and I are both 24 but she would never go for it. Have you ever fantasized about this scenario involving friends? I have a couple that we have been friends with since school that a fantasize about swapping with alot

 

Just make sure it's really what you want. Once it happens you can't take it back. When my wife first did it I was turned on but upset at the same time. Hard to explain but she has been with her friend now for about 3 years and I am totally ok with sharing her.

 

My wife of 30 years has always been open to lots of sexual adventures. For 30 years i have participated in countless multiple partner encounters. She is bi and well as i so we really get into our sexual desires. Once a month we plan on a sexual feast of sorts with another like minded couple. They too are our age and in good shape like we are. A normal evening involves the ladies putting supper together as Paul and me watch whatever is on, sometimes sneaking in a little cock sucking before the real party starts. Bottom line, we have a great open marriage as we share our sexual adventures with each other. Do we mess around with alot of different people, hell no. She has her regulars and I have mine. Whether Male or female we enjoy the thrills of both worlds.

 

I have been sharing my wife since before she was married. It is fantastic seeing her in 3-sums and more, enjoying her body to the fullest. If you haven't done it yet don't wait you will both love it.

 

The wife and I roleplay mfm during sex. We have more intense orgasms. Everyone mentions cuck. No male to male or creampie shit. Straight up sharing and taking turns fucking and getting sucked by her.

 

My wife like the idea when we talk about FFM or Swinging, but we have not made it for real till now...
She said it is better to still as Fantasy.

 

I'm still fantasising about a MMF threesome with my wife.I really should stay off this forum because being on here just makes me desire it even more! It's like an itch that just needs a damn good scratching.

 

I tried to get my wife to do it with one of the men who were trying to seduce her years ago. She would get close, then not go through with it. It's not like she hasn't been with others. She cheated on me lots of times when were dating, but she actually takes her marriage vows seriously and won't have sex with another man. I'm happy with that. I still like to hear about her unfaithful times, and she enjoys telling me about them.

 

I love sharing my wife with my bestfriend it makes me hard as shit to watch and join in.

 

I totally agreed with you, sharing the wife with other guys is so fucking hot and sexy. Watching her explore her sexually and get orgasms from other guys is erotic, Seeing how wet her pussy gets with another guy cock deep in it is always hot to watch. To see her go from innocent housewife to a bitch in heat that can not get enough hard cock is awesome.

 

Love it , great times . She gets the attention of two guys . Four hands two cocks all for her pleasure . I've enjoyed helping her enjoy all of that and also enjoyed showing him how talented she is in every aspect of sex .
She loves to suck cock and have a nice fat one sliding in and out of her pussy . Have to admit watching her in action fucking and sucking is a real turn on too .

 

I know most of the psychological reasons for it such as sperm competition and having other men desire her which makes her more valuable. Also men are voyeurs and nothing better than watching or partaking in a porn scene where the female star goes home with you no matter how good the other guy is. 60% of men into this are bisexual according to the studies done, whether they know it or are repressing it. There are a bunch of other reasons too. The most basic is that early man did not have an equal amount of men and women. There was no marriage either. The men would gather around the available female and watch as they waited their turn with her. Watching while knowing you will soon be doing that to her too, is arousing and passed on through our genes. Sperm competition is one of the more popular reasons but nowhere need bisexuality. Men will thrust harder and deeper after their woman has been with another man in an effort to displace the other guy's sperm with his own. Some say that the head of a penis is designed to scoop out the other guy's semen due to its shape and this has been seen in studies but they are unsure if that is why the head of a penis is shaped that way. They only know that it does push semen to the sides where the back of the penis head brings it back out when the guy is on the upstroke of his thrusting.

I was a cuckold for a year and lost my girlfriend due to it. I never watched or participate. She tried once to have my friends gangbang her and then save me for last but the guys were too straight to want to walk around men with erections or having to deal with other men's semen inside her vagina, on her mouth or body. So she did us one by one and then she started to date one of those friends behind my back and that was the end of it. She pursued me because she wanted my genes to mate with hers. She said I am good looking, intelligent, tall and have a good sense of humor. I said no thanks.

After that I cuckolded a very husbands, one for 25 years. All but one divorced when the wife eventually found a guy who evoked an emotional response in her that she did not want nor could control. It happens because sex releases Oxytocin whose job is to emotionally bond the sexual couple together. It is very powerful and the same hormone that emotionally bonds a mother to her child. It is why sex sometimes turns to love and how it affects us can vary from sexual partner to sexual partner. I fell in love with one of the cuckoldresses and left my wife for a month before I came to my senses. It is a dangerous game and you will notice that long married couples into wife sharing are as rare as hen's teeth. Sex with a new person is always more exciting than with your spouse. That is due to genetic coding that wants us to mate with different partners in order to up the odds are giving birth to someone with superior genes and perhaps a mutation that is helpful in an ever changing climate and environment. Monogamy is not our natural state but rather imposed by society. All but animals with a society, mostly humans and Chimpanzees have monogamy due to social structures in their species.

For all these reasons men have an urge to watch their wives/girlfriends have sex with others. The difference is in giving into your genetic urges or not due to our pesky brains and societal training that non monogamy is evil and bad. We were non monogamous and had a great sex life and married over 44 years and still going strong. We are monogamous in our old age for practical reasons.

I will say that sex with your wife or girlfriend after she had sex with someone else makes the sex between you very intense for a few weeks. Some call it reclaiming your spouse. However it is a very dangerous game we play. It is a minefield with a lot more mines than fields. It does add high risk to your marriage. Eventually the wife will find some one that was in a threesome with you and see him on the side. She may like sex with other guys so much that she will get a boyfriend on her own. She is already conditioned to know that sex with other men is not a problem and all she really is doing is not telling her husband about it. They get tired of sharing their sex with other men, with their spouses because they cannot be passionate. They feel it is all about putting on a good show for their husbands. Eventually they will want a sex partner that they do not have to share. I have seen this among others into our lifestyle. Mostly end up with a lot of drama and divorce.

I shared my wife once in a wife swap. My wife was a virgin and had a natural curiosity about sex with other men. She had no idea of how different it would be so we did a wife swap with our best friends. The guy was rough and did not make love to my wife which was the only way she ever had sex. Lots of foreplay, fondling and being emotional until you just had to have intercourse. What she go was pounded into a couch and bruises on her breasts. She said she never wanted to have sex with another man again and I was more than enough for her. She did not even have an orgasm with our friend. After that she started inviting her girlfriends to join us in a threesome and they all did since they had crushes on me. I was considered a hottie in my younger days. Good looks, high IQ and played middle linebacker on the high school football team. Also a decorated Vietnam veteran who made the girls laugh and had a reputation of being good in bed. They all knew of me and saw my picture, my wife included, years before they met me. What was strange at the time was my wife was the one wanting me to have sex with other women. She would sometimes share me and then watch me have intercourse with the other girl. She never had sex with a woman until she set me up with her best friend who was in need of sex after a long divorce and dry sexual spell. It was then that I asked her to join me and her girlfriend in bed. Turns out her girlfriend was secretly bi and my wife's repressed bisexuality came out. So it is true that those who like to watch, have a 60% chance of being bi. I have had sex with two males in my younger days but am not sexually attracted to them. I am heteroflexible which is identifying as straight but under the right circumstances can be sexual with a guy just like straight guys in prison do. Same gender sex does not repel me so I can do the sexual acts if my wife wanted me to but she does not.

When I was a cuckold I did lick my girlfriend to orgams after her frequent dates compliments of the Army base near us that had thousands of good looking horny guys who would have sex with any willing girl. She would just tell me how many guys and general information. She did not go into detail about what they did. She also made an effort to clean up after sex so when I tasted her there was only a faint taste of semen which took me a few months to recognize. It did not bother me because I did not think about where it came from. The tasted was 90% hers and after being in a few orgies where girls go from guy to guy, tasting semen was part of what you did. The girls did no shower after being with each guy. None of us was into it or asked for it but if you wanted sex with one of the stoned or drunk girls, you tasted semen on their lips, body and inside their vaginas or butts. There were no huge cream pies like you see in porn. Most real life guys do not produce all that semen.

 

After only being with couples most of my life I finally shared a girlfriend with a friend of mine and understood the other side of things. Was so turned on watching his big younger dick slide into her while I told him to fuck her hard. He left and I gave her a very rough ride and unloaded.. I'd love to find another like her.