.........how I still trust people almost 1st day I met them, and I'm soo nice to every new buddy searching friends. and than I get their fingers into my butthole.
one rule of thumb, if you're meaner, people will be less likely to want to put their fingers in your butt.
That's a form of initiation in the US. Kind of the same way dogs sniff each other's asses. They'd shove their fingers up there if they had them.
are we talking one finger at a time or several? if the latter, are they all attached to one hand or are all your new buddies gathered around your backside?