I hope people experience this post as it is intended: points of hope and advice for older people and possibly some words of wisdom for younger. I wanted to share what is going with my partner and me sexually. We’re in our late 60s/early 70s and have been together about a year and a half. Previously we were in long marriages and both our spouses passed away several years before we met. Both us are very sexual people, and both also experienced diminished sex in the later years of our marriages. Now, we are having the most incredible sex of our lives! I am so profoundly grateful; we both are. We talk about how can this be happening? First, it’s just very lucky that we met one another. We’re both fairly healthy and fairly fit for our ages. Cialis keeps me harder, longer. Premarin vaginal cream 1x week keeps her vagina more supple, not dry. Refined coconut oil is by far the best lubricant we’ve found. I like Trader Joe’s. I heat it in the microwave so that it liquefies, then let it cool – nice little jar by bedside. Refined has significantly less smell than unrefined. It’s good for my cock and her vagina and anywhere else that might need penetration. We’re both trusting and non-judgmental enough that we can share and role-play fantasies. We’re both old enough that we know what we have in one another. I am profoundly grateful. And here’s to older people’s sex! (Did I mention good vibrators?)
I don’t want to lose that part of my identity, which was so much a part of my younger life. I’m a little younger than you are, but still sometimes need lube from the tube (hub says it’s “like fucking a jar of Vaseline- grrrr). And my trusty Eroscillator still works fine, as do my fingers and the running bath water! Finally, as a senior citizen who once complained that men were a bunch of quick-squirters, it’s distressing that chemical enhanced hardons sometimes last too long. Sigh, never just right- we’ll not often enough, lol.
Good for you! We are in our 60's and have been having sex with each other for 40 years. It is just as good as it has ever been, not as frequent, but that's fine. That anticipation makes it even better. Fortunately, my wife still gets quite wet, so no lube is required.
Into this life we're born Baby sometimes, sometimes we don't know why And time seems to go by so fast In the twinkling of an eye Let's enjoy it while we can (let's enjoy it while we can) Won't you help me share my load (help me share my load) From the dark end of the street To the bright side of the road Van Morrison
We too are in our 60's, both divorced and remarried and this time we are having fun sexually, trying and doing things now with each other and others too that were only fantasies with our prior spouses
Yes, it is SO FAR OUT! To be so open! Since making the OP, I've started taking Cialis 5 mg/day for BPH (enlarged prostate and frequent night time urination). It's been a breakthrough for us. Basically, I am always ready for sex - no waiting for two hours for the Cialis 10-20 mg (or Viagra) to take effect as before. And for sexier times, I take another 5 mg in addition to the regular 5 mg. We've been together for >3 years now. We're down to 4-5 x week. Still very erotic.
