Sexting, Cheating Or Not?

Discussion in 'Sex Polls' started by morrow, Nov 4, 2016.

  1. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    Can you be accused of cheating by sexting?

    Is it fair to say, that if you sext then it's no different to physically cheating?

    Does it show a lacking in the relationship?

    If you do it often enough, isn't it like deception?

    Do you tell your partner about your sexting?

    What do you think they would say or feel?

    What would you say if they did it?

    So is sexting cheating?
     
  2. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    What are you wearing right now?
     
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  3. LagunaBeach

    LagunaBeach Banned

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    morrow,

    Are you serious? If your girlfriend sent a nude photo of herself to another dude, would you be good?

    Cheating is doing something you wouldn't do in the presence of your girlfriend.

    Asking a married woman or a woman in a committed relationship to send you nude photos of yourself makes you a girly man weasel. You're likely to find your clock thoroughly cleaned by a very pissed off husband or boyfriend. Moreover, depending upon jurisdiction, such a solicitation might be illegal, which would land you in jail, hopefully with Bubba who will have you naked an on your knees before you get your bedroll on your bunk.

    You are not a man.
     
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  4. StellarCoon

    StellarCoon Dr. Professor

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    Of course it's cheating.
     
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  5. StellarCoon

    StellarCoon Dr. Professor

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    Another great reason why you should ask your partner a shit-load of questions before committing. Contrasting views on the most fundamental level.

    "Babe, I swear I wasn't cheating on you, I just sent him a bunch of videos I made for him in which I masturbated with a dildo while calling out his name. That's all...."
     
  6. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    It's cheating.
     
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  7. SpacemanSpiff

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  8. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    Good answers people...Laguna beach your right, I'm not a guy
     
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  9. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    Can you be accused of cheating by sexting? well, you can be accused of cheating by pretty much anything. there's a famous commercial the last couple years where a guy is accused of cheating for calling his insurance agent.

    Is it fair to say, that if you sext then it's no different to physically cheating? it's different. that doesn't mean it's not cheating, but it's not identical to physical cheating.

    Does it show a lacking in the relationship? probably

    If you do it often enough, isn't it like deception? if you do it without informing your partner, one time is deception. if your partner is aware, then no, it's not deceptive.

    Do you tell your partner about your sexting? if i had a partner and i was sexting, it would be with her so she should be aware of it.

    What do you think they would say or feel? if i was sexting with her, i assume she would be incredibly turned on.

    What would you say if they did it? sexted me back? i don't know, "thank you"?

    So is sexting cheating? assuming it's not with your partner, and your partner hasn't given you permission to do it, then yes.
     
  10. LagunaBeach

    LagunaBeach Banned

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    Sorry for letting my emotions dictate my response.

    I don't think that you're gay.

    If my girlfriend sent a naked photo of herself to another dude, I'd be pissed. Here's the irony. Nudity doesn't bother me. She could go skinny dipping in a pool full of men. I wouldn't care. I would care of she had sex with one of 'em. For some reason, I've never gotten nutted up over nudity. But cheating is a whole different story. If she cheats, I can't trust her.
     
  11. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    I knew where you were coming from..it's ok, I'm kind of the same mind..
     
  12. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    I love this response,

    I agree with lots of it.

    The lacking in the relationship thing, I so get!
     
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  13. iriegnome

    iriegnome Member

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    IMHO, sexting is cheating. No if's ands or but's.. It is cheating. It is a sexual encounter with another person. Can't really look at it any other way
     
  14. averageguy6

    averageguy6 Average Ordinary Guy

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    It's kind of cheating but not in the traditional sense. SO before you sext ask if it's ok with them. Then if they are good with it I'll give you my number [​IMG] .
     
  15. BirdFlu

    BirdFlu resident alien

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    Any sexual interest carried out is, in my book, because cheating means being unfaithful.
     
  16. BirdFlu

    BirdFlu resident alien

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    Yes. This.
     
  17. undefeated

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    technically no- its is being a scumbag though
     
  18. MikeE

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    "Is ... it cheating?" is determined entirely by one's partner and one's agreements with one's partner.
     
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  19. hitman73

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    Cheating
     
  20. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    i think it's cheating.
     

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