Who here feels like they get enough, too much, or are happy? Just my poll for the night...me personally, I could deal with more in my life. lol. :X
I've never been in a situation where I've thought 'too much sex.' I've been single for a matter of months now, and my sex life has been kinda lacking.
I've actually known people that have been with sexaholics...lmao. A friend of mine actually dumped a guy, because he wanted it constantly....lol
though it is (in general) a bit overrated, i still get WAY too little... come on girls.....even once every other month and i'd be way more content than i am now.....been almost a year.....
Sex is absolutely not overrated. Sex is the most important thing a person can do with their life. It's the point of life. Have a baby and raise them well. Sex addiction can be dangeous though. Although sexaholic is a term invented by the 12 step movement who are a bunch of religious oriented idiots.
having a baby is probably one of the worst ideas possible, imho. i'm not at all anti-childbirth, but i am almost anti-fertility clinic in the same way that many rightwingers are anti-abortion clinic...........in my opinion only the most selfish and narrowminded of barren couples would consider a complete disregard for the inner workings of their bodies and nature as a whole instead of taking a parentless child into their family as their own....thousands of children in need of homes go without.....and hundreds are born into loving families by means of medical procedures designed to create MORE people. its an overpopulated world, our resources are rapidly running out and pollution is getting worse literally by the hour....on top of this history has yet to provide a single good reason for the human race to be kept around to begin with....and people are really so hung up that they have to MAKE a baby rather than just RAISE a baby....disgusting if you ask me. humans in general are assholes, and the last thing >I< want to do is make more of them. raising a kid is noble, and wonderful i'm sure, and i'd like to do it someday. but when i can afford it and have no more pressing matters, i'm definitely getting the snip.....i never want to have blood descendants.... people are generally rotten. i'd like to be a dad, but i sure don't want to contribute to the population. adoption seems the best choice, if i can afford it someday. but in my mind the only reason to live is to be happy, and you need love to be happy. you need support of friends and family...but family does NOT have to be a blood relation. i certainly dont think procreation is the purpose in life...... good sex is probably the best thing in the world, and i sometimes even lay awake wishing it was time for me to get some....but bad sex (passtime sex) is much more common and really not all that great. your average person isn't a demon in the sack. good sex, the sex people want, is not at all overrated....but bad sex makes up the most of it because most people are out of shape and too ignorant or selfish or noncommunicative to learn to please their partner rather than just themselves...this goes for all types of people, regardless of gender, race, or creed....and less-than-great sex is really, really overrated. personally, i'd rather not have sex just for the sake of having sex. yeah, it feels kind of good. but then, i can jack off and it feels kind of good, too. if i am going to have sex, it better either be DAMN good, or it has to be very emotional. the best is when both are true....
i feel mostly that i no longer give a dam. when i was young, horney and not getting any my male ego made it seem like that was somehow then end of the world or something. i still think the idea is pretty. as an idea. but that's about it. =^^= .../\...
The girl Ive had for the past month and a half or so is almost up to my speed in bed, but it started to hurt my work schedule cause when shed be here it was at least 3 times a day which might add up to five or six hours of sex a day. Dont think this is easy and pain comes with pleasure, good sex 3 times a day is a workout from hell, parts get a bit sore. The funny thing is it was a good while before one of us admitted to each other we needed to slow down to get more things done in the real world.
It's been a damn long time since I had good sex hell, it feels like a damn long time since I had sex period, even though it's only been a couple months. Libido's been hitting the roof lately
I get just enough...average 2-3 times a week, sometimes more than that, depending on how the week goes (stress levels, fatigue). After all, we have three young children! I feel satisfied, definitely. It's a good amount for me.
It's good to know we're getting enough to function properly, except peacekeeper...i'm glad you didn't lose your job, bro! lol
