Hello everyone!!!!i was wondering if sex with an ex is ever a good idea? he dumped me 2 years ago and recently asked to meet me to "catch up"!!i agreed to meet him but now im wondering is this meeting about sex??and if so should i?
I say no. He probably wasn't very good anyway to begin with. You need to find out what you want from him first, instead of trying to analyse what you should do if he hypothetically wants sex. Only you know what you truly want. Best of luck.
i know what i realy want .....and despite the fact that she is quite good looking , sex with the x is not it . never go backwards , try one of the couple billion guys you havnt already tryed and had dubious results with .
I had an ex boyfriend call me a couple months ago, after about 5 years of minimal contact and breaking up. He seemed happy and friendly and eager to catch up. I originally planned on meeting him over coffee, but then I called him back and told him flat out that I just was not interested in catching up with him any longer. He had asked me to go to a hockey game, and when a man asks a woman out "for coffee" I assume that we would be talking intimately in a cubby hole somewhere, where I didn't want to be. So anyway, I think you should call him and tell him your real thoughts. Stick up for yourself, bite the bullet and do it. You will thank yourself for making a good decision and stick to your guns.
Well regardless of this particular situation, sex with an ex is always difficult territory, if you like the guy and want too, and can get up from the bed and walk away with a for old times sake smile on your face then kewl, but if not don't even think about it, if your curious about how he is doing go see him but keep it platonic!
Just say no to anything more than a friendship with exes! It does nothing but enable both of you not to find better relationships with other people. That's just my opinion though. Plus if he dumped you that should clue you in that he just wants to get laid.
YAY!!!!!!!! They never are all that and you always wind up wondering what the hell you were thinking!
