Sex with strangers?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Face Eater, Jun 26, 2009.

  1. Face Eater

    Face Eater Banned

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    Yes or no?

    If I was to base my answer on experience I would say yes, but grudgingly. It is a huge gamble. Some experiences can leave you smiling for weeks. I've found the most intense, romantic, passionate and sweet connections with some one night stands, and in my memory they remain just that. Sometimes trying to hold on to that connection ruins it. Some experiences just fuck you up. Some people are just fucking weird and/or bad at sex.

    Sleeping around really is like a box of chocolates, which is why I don't really miss the amount of sex I used to get. I definitely prefer something long term.
     
  2. McLeodGanja

    McLeodGanja Banned

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    I think it would be nice if people would be more open to one night romantic encounters that don't necessarily have to involve fucking, not that I am against that, but you know it doesn't always have to go that far. In such instances there is always the assumption that that is where it will lead.
     
  3. indian~summer

    indian~summer yo ho & a bottle of yum

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    the best sex i ever had was with a stranger, a german man while i was in vienna
    mmmmm soooo hot
    i got lectured by the hostel staff for it but was gone the next day so i didn't care

    most sex with strangers is terrible though
     
  4. Face Eater

    Face Eater Banned

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    When I am drunk (which is 90% of the time when I am out partying) and when I am with a sexy woman, I can't really think of anything else but fucking her. I think alcohol is essentially the problem. When I am sober I am generally open to things not involving sex.
     
  5. mutteredexpletives

    mutteredexpletives Banned

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    I spent an intoxicating and very sexual weekend with a man I met from Australia. (this was years ago) We got each other off without actually doing the deed, lots of play... It was very nice, & safer than the classic one night stand.
    We parted ways without any trouble. I never saw him again, as was our deal going into it. But I have that one great weekend ingrained in my mind. *sigh*
    Fuck, I need to get some sleep. This forum can be such a frustration with all the sex talk. :rolleyes:
     
  6. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    No. I'm not much of a sexual person and the idea of having sex with a stranger kinda disgusts me.
     
  7. Mr. Mojo Risin'

    Mr. Mojo Risin' Senior Member

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    Haven't tried it.

    Yet.
     
  8. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    No. I dont even like strangers standing too close to me in queues
     
  9. naedhippie

    naedhippie Banned

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    Never done it-
    don't think I could
     
  10. seizedbyanger

    seizedbyanger Banned

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    i wouldn't

    the chances, to me, are that i would wake up itchy rather than smiling.

    that's a no-no for me.
     
  11. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

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    no opinion.

    not because I don't think I would form one, but, because I dunno.
     
  12. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    I've had plenty of great sex with strangers, but I'm kinda over it.
    I don't know, I just feel like I've had my fill of that and it doesn't have anything to offer anymore, apart from brief pleasure, which I can gain in so many other ways.
     
  13. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    depends on the stranger. if we talk for a while and the conversation is soomth and well going..if the stranger is hot, if we have the fire between us...then hell yeah , why not.
     
  14. Jedite83

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    Done it.
     
  15. BraveSirRubin

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    No, never as fun.
     
  16. Bonkai

    Bonkai Later guys

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    Never again, rather quit while i'm ahead don't want to learn every lesson the hard way.
     
  17. whimbrel

    whimbrel Wasteland Soldier

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    definitely no
     
  18. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    No, never have, never will. Sex is too personal for me, and I'm askeered of strangers. I need to feel safe.
     
  19. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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  20. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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    So you've never had sex with anyone you've met on a night out?
     
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