when you meet someone special to you, and you like him, do you have sex from the first time? if not, when? and what else can you do or do you do, to be frank?
it really depends on the person. personally, if i like someone, i prefer to not have sex on the first night... but then i don't wait for long after. usually around the 3rd date i think is a good time. but you should only do it when you are both ready, and its hard to put a timer on that!! as for what else you can do... there's loads! hmm... i dont want to make this too graphic... there's kissing... and you dont always have to stick to the mouth; hmm... want a list of body parts? lol - neck, ears, chest, nipples... and if ur into it, the anus (rimming) - a lot of guys arent into it, but it does feel really good! and of course theres oral... so u dont have to have full sex, theres plenty of other stuff. i personally live for foreplay lol. good luck!
I want to think that the guy, I am hooking up with is just a normal guy with a positive sexual attitude, who will be as honest about his sexual desire as I am. Waiting till the 3rd date sounds like 19th century. People were trying to feign restraint and show good manners. I am all for good manners but am against any sort of pretension. I fully understand a guy, who needs some time to get to know you and develop some trust in his top guy, when it comes to anal sex. So, yeah, you don't have to go all the way there on your first date, if the dude is young and lacking experience. But a guy, who needs weeks to decide, if he wants it or doesn't is not my cup of tea. KD
. When I was just out of high school, it was all about the sex. So, I did it on the first date. But now I wait. How long? I like to wait. I've had terrific sex in the past, so I don't feel compelled to accomplish anything. I mean, if it's just about sex, I'd rather wash my hands and go back to bed. It's embarrassing to wake up next to somebody and not know what to say. I'll skip that. I have to trust you. I mean, I have to feel like I can talk to you. That can take 2 dates, or 20. .
