Hi all. Ladies - have any of you been with a guy who just pokes his dick around in an attempt to find your vag hole? Gentlemen: what's the deal with this penis poking? Why not grab your dick and guide it in? I'm dating someone new and he does this. I've never experienced this 'technique'(?) before. We make out, get naked, he'll hop on top and begin poking around to get it in. It's such a turn off. I don't understand why he doesn't just grab his dick and guide it in. There have been times where, 10 (failed) pokes later I'll reach down, grab his dick, and put it in. It's frustrating for me - I would imagine it is for him as well - so why wouldn't he just put it in? I think this is an inexperienced thing? So, what do you all think? Also, his penis is on the shorter side. Which is fine if you know what to do with it. When we are doing it doggy style, or some variation of from behind, he will thrust up too much so his penis ends up plopping out often - like every 20-30 seconds - so it's very disruptive. And, again, instead of grabbing his dick and placing it back in, he'll blindly poke around - this technique is especially ineffective when you're doing it from behind. Also, does he not realize he's thrusting up to high which make his dick plop out? I'm so frustrated and just ... feel .... almost like a deer in the headlights... I've never had sexual issues in any of my previous relationships, it's new and frustrating. I like this guy, a lot, so I'm wanting to understand this. Why, how to deal with it, how to raise this. Thanks!