Hi there. Technically, I'm a new member but I have been a member here before under another name, about two years ago. That said, I figure I'll make my second debut with a topic that might spark a lot of conversation. On another forum I belong to, someone started a topic asking members for sex confessions that might surprise others. I posted the following response there, and I'm reposting an edited version of it here to see what kind of conversations it starts. I have to admit, when I originally posted it, I didn't like the self-inventory I took ... sometimes I'm a real pervert, sometimes I'm a jerk with questionable morals, and sometimes I'm just an ordinary kinky guy. But I am who I am, warts and all. What about the rest of you? MY CONFESSIONS * I am married to a woman, but I occasionally have sex with other men. It’s not that I’m bi ... I’m just perpetually horny and will take any opportunity presented since my wife (A) has entered early menopause and has no sex drive and (B) works a night schedule and I work days. * I play only with other married men. And it's surprising how many of them are out there. * It happened decades ago, but I once disrobed and fondled a very drunk female friend as she slept in my bed. I simply jacked off and admired. There was no penetration, but let's just say there was a lot of admiration. * I have a major league foot fetish -- for pretty women’s feet. I can’t get into male feet ... although if they’re petite and pedicured and the guy has shaved, shapely legs, maybe. * Going along with my foot fetish, I have, um, "borrowed" women’s high heels for my own self-pleasure. Usually, I return them. Sometimes, I haven’t. I have to know whose shoes they are, however ... a random shoe doesn't do it for me. * I once created a female Yahoo ID and profile, using my own personality traits, to see how much interest I’d get from other men. I received a SCARY LOT of attention. * I flirt incessantly with women and gay men. It works wonders. * I used to take full advantage of gloryholes at the local adult video stores. Giving and getting. * I have approximately 1 TB of porn videos in my collection. * When I was a teenager, jacking off in a lounge chair on our poolside patio while no one was home, my dog came over, nuzzled my balls and licked my asshole. I didn’t stop him, and I quickly shot a HUGE load over my head. Despite my best efforts, I couldn’t get him to do it again. * When I was 38 years old, I once had a threeway with a 76-year-old married guy and his 74-year-old wife. They're the oldest people I've ever had sex with. (The youngest was 19 ... but I was 18.) * I had my first MFM threeway when I was in college. My roommate and his girlfriend. We were drunk. She jokingly told me to suck his cock. I did. He blew his load in my mouth in 10 seconds. We never repeated it – or talked about it after that. * When I was in college, I once got a handjob from a fellow student (female) who would go on to someday win the Pulitzer Prize. * I have participated in a gangbang of a willing wife at an adult theater. * I love love love passable crossdressers and trannies. * I would bang my sister-in-law in a heartbeat. * I have a friend with whom I regularly exchange our wives’ panties and heels for self-pleasure. From time to time, we get together at his house and jerk each other off, using our wives’ things to cum into. * When I was a teenager, I sneaked into a friend’s house to steal his porn magazines while he and his family were away on vacation. I was surprised to see that his collection included one or two gay porn magazines -- and one of his mother's bras. My mother later found the collection I had stolen -- and the bra -- and threw it all out without saying a word. * I have had several successful encounters with other men using Craigslist. The hottest was the married guy I met while traveling on business. He wanted me to lie face down on the bed in my hotel room while he climbed on top of me, grinding his cock between my ass cheeks without actually penetrating me. He placed his left hand on top of my left hand the entire time, intentionally clinking our wedding bands together, until he shot his load all over my back and ass. Then, when it was my turn to cum, he insisted I shoot my load on his wedding ring. I did. I still withdraw that memory from my spank bank from time to time. * I have, in the course of my business travels, once or twice hired the services of an escort and used massage parlors for some no-strings sexual relief. * My wife and I, in a rare moment of sexual liberation, actually joined a local swingers club about three years ago. She has been exactly once. On the other hand, the owner knows me by name. And so do five other couples.
I couldn't see myself doing some of those things is I was married, the others I wouldn't do ever. Maybe you should see a professional therapist...
I loved everything about this post. If I were in your position, I might be doing the exact same things... And there's more than a few that I'd like to try anyway. Don't let anyone judge you... You're just as sane as I am.
I agree - have a few of my own too Married 20 years and now open but primary with my wife I must have had 100+ partners, 60:40 women/men, over the years; and another new partner tonight out of the blue 26 years younger than me. Anonomous sex is a lot about the anticipation and it was real nice tonight when I only got about an hour's notice from him - I live a bit remote (50 miles to the nearest supermarket) - and he was nice, Stripped off as soon as he was in the house (uncut too - I do like uncut guys ....sigh) and I'd put a pair of jeans back on so as not to seem too forward! We fucked doggy, him on top of me, me on top of him, me standing him half-lying and finally with a vibrator in me and my cock in him I fired. He was good and we had a great session. I used to go to a small club for bisexuals in Perth and sometimes used to have great anonomous sex there - with 3/4/5 guys sometimes. There were four bedroom cubicles and the partitions didn't go up to the ceiling - you could hear some incredible fucking and orgasms - definitely prostate ones that went on and on. My wife and I had a threesum with another bi-guy for a few months - used to meet up at a swingers club; that was a real nice place that just oozed sexuality. different nights for different types of sessions. Had a few impromptu liasons there and loved doing it upstairs in the open with people watching. Depraved huh? Yes, u r what u r, or we r what we r - but life if short and sex is very enjoyable with both sexes. I'm happy and sorta proud in a way to be bisexual, both bodies attract me and I suppose I just love the variety and unknown. I'vre been with guys and girls in maybe fourteen different countries, Africans (one with a big cock was my first at 19), Asians, New Guineans, caucasions, Tibetans, Chinese, Indonesian, a 19 y o Vietnamese boy et al. Loved it - to me sex is like good food, wine, - something for the senses. Njoy Simon :sunny:
