Sex and Facebook.

"I love you more than facebook. and i love fb more than sex.."

thats when my gf said to me. im at a complete loss as to what to think and feel about it.

any advice would be much appreciated. also please dont abuse my gf.

 

Chicks like to gossip and socialize; facebook allows them to do this electronically, most likely, anywhere they go via cell phone; it's the new mall.

 

I don't want to sound like a bitch but you might wanna drop her if she's more focused on facebook then your relationship...either that or talk to her because this isn't very normal...yeah a lot of people get addicted to facebook, but honestly, its just pathetic in my opinion...

 

Wait... she was serious? Or was she being sarcastic?

 

i came on your facebook..

 

lol pretty sweet gf

 

lol

 

Sounds like you need some new tricks in the bedroom

 

nothing good can come from this, someones going to get blocked I can already see it.

 

Man, you people must really hate facebook.

 

I don't hate it...I have a facebook that I'm on quite regularly...but I go on it out of boredom...not because it actually means something to me hahaha

 

But, she said she loved HIM more than facebook?! As in he is at the top of the list. Way to go OP!!! :2thumbsup:

As far as loving FB more than sex, maybe she just does! Sometimes we get addicted to things, and FB and Hip forums are pretty easy for us to do that.

I really don't think it's that big of a deal. I say similar loving stuff to my husband.

Husband: wanna go have a little nookie?
Me: uhh...do you see ben and jerry's in my hand? I may be married to you, honey, but they have my heart. LOL (they own my ass too)

 

http://www.wtae.com/news/27146694/detail.html
couple that loves FB..

 

Take it as a compliment.........for the time being.

 

HerrDoktor, are you absolutely sure that wasn't a joke? Because it really sounds like one...
How old are the two of you? Have you HAD sex with her? Are there problems in the bedroom that you were aware of?
If she is serious, I don't know... A lot of people have baggage about sex, and compared to that, facebook must seem very simple. Either you're strong enough to work through it or you aren't. Assess your commitment level from a rational place, not an emotional one.

 

yeah it sounds like a joke. i'd probably say it to my boyfriend too, joking of course. im sure he wouldnt take offence to it, or think into it too deeply!

 

I partially agree...if she seriously likes facebook more than sex, then there's either something lacking in your sex life, or she likes that kind of thing (talking, gossip, socializing, whatever) more than sex. Some people just arent crazy about sex. But dont give up hope - try spicing things up in the bedroom first (or the kitchen floor...or stairs...you get the point) to see if things change her mind. Good luck!

 

the good news is that he knows what she's into. foreplay should definitely involve "poking," and when she's doing something right, he should "like" it.

 

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