Hi 1) I am 27 year old married person from last 3 Months , since my marriage not even once i am able to have sex , Though i try many times , but every time i face issues like I got erection but that remains for few seconds, due to which i am unable to do sex . I am very worried , and even some times i think is it really a problem or its my mind set which is creating problems. 2) If I take Viagra, will it be ok? Or Viagra will cause me any future problem? may cause our child to be abnormal? Please suggest.
Sounds like something you should talk to your doctors about, Viagra is just there to help you maintain an erection And are you trying new things, could spice up your love life?
If the problem started immediately after your marriage maybe you are having a subconscious issue with/about your marriage... Try role playing?.. Have her pretend to be and treat her like a different person... She can be a whore or Sunday school teacher.. you a teenage virgin or sexual predator.. Dress up/hide your faces whatever it takes to get into character.. might work... could be fun...
I am almost certain it is performance anxiety. Many men can get erect, and worry about performance to the extent it actually affects their erection. Viagra will not affect a fetus. In fact, merely taking the drug would give you the confidence to maintain an erection. However, it would be BEST to talk with your wife, who can reassure you and help you through this. -Doc
Post a naked full frontal picture of your wife, and we might be able to give some feedback. Also, does she call you things like "a-- hole", "pencil d!ck", and try to stab you in your sleep? Does she tell you that she wishes you were dead, and say that she never wanted to get married? Do you like to watch gladiator movies and spend a lot of time in mens locker rooms and trying on fashionable new shoes?, and getting re-decorating tips from cute guys? Let us know...
could be a lot of different things. If you had sex with your wife prior to marriage without a problem, it's almost certainly something psychological.
sounds like a common case of ugly wife making your dick soft , even though you consciously would like to get an erection and have sex on top of her, your penis has higher standards and does not want to be responsible for the creature that may or may not spawn from her unholy loins
i hope you have not seen that movie, about the teenage girl, who has razor sharp teeth in in her ****, that kept bitting the dicks off of her boyfriends! :willy_nilly: i drempt once of sticking my dick inside my friends paula ****, and it was ripped to shreads by razor blades inside her! i could not get wood for a couple of days after that dream! i would strongly suggest you DON'T see that movie or, other movies of that kind right now. it sounds like you got psychological stuff going down with yourself. best if you see your doc about this. most likely there is nothing wrong in a physical way with you. if you have this problem for several months then, i suggest you see a psychologist. good luck to you mate! i'm pulling for you!