I can never orgasm during sex. I only have once. My husband feels bad because he can't make me orgasm and I feel bad because it's so hard for me to orgasm. My questions are, How can I make myself more sensitive? How can I make my orgasm come quicker and easier? Thank you in advance!
I love my husband so much! It has nothing to do with size, he's 8 inches, I'm very tight. I get really wet, so no need for lubes. I just don't know what to do. We've tried different types of lube to hopefully help sinsitivity, but nothing. We use cock rings and that's when I orgasmed once, but since then, I've gotten close, but haven't orgasmed. Any advice is greatly appreciated!! Thanks again!
I used to struggle to make my partner come. So at one point what we did is she would masturbate and make herself come this is for clit orgasm btw. I try to watch how she does it, her speed rhythm motion etc and try to copy, while doing this she would guide me with her hand, and tell me faster, slower etc. After a few attempts I made her cum, then each time it got easier and easier for both of us. It was almost like I needed training in how to make her cum, but also she had to get used to someone else making her cum also. Also I noticed when the focus was to much on making her cum we would quite often fail, when we were more relaxed it came a lot easier. So we would play for a while, then fuck, then go back to playing etc etc, at first it took a really long time but we just had patience and fun, and now it happens so easy every time. The more foreplay we do the more sensitive she is. and I don't just mean nipples and kissing etc. Maybe some light massage, cuddling, kissing, tickling everything. Quite often she is crazy wet before I even touch her tits or pussy, and this always makes her ALOT more sensitive, and I really do mean a lot.
Most females,Im guessing,take quite alot longer to reach orgasm than males,so no need to hurry,unless you're partner has no patience,and if thats the case,maybe find someone who has more patience! Do you masturbate?I think its easier to teach your partner,if you can bring yourself to orgasm first.
I have just heard of a relaxation therapy where you partner rubs your g spot and clit very very gently. The idea is for it to almost be meditative. It is timed for 15 minutes and then you stop. During the 15 minutes you verbalize what you are feeling, hearing smelling or seeing. The goal is not orgasm it is meditation. That said when women can relax they are more likely to orgasm. It is often difficult to get out of our own heads and enjoy the moment without thinking what needs to be done in an hour a day or even next week. If this becomes a ritual that is practiced often it will almost guarantee orgasm.
