As the tittle says I want to hear some tips from you ladies, more specifically for blowjobs. I'm a men with current gf, and I do enjoy everything we do in bed, however I wish the bjs were better. I'm afraid she doesn't do it often because she feels that she's not good at it and may somehow also feel a bit frustrated. I know I could tell her myself, but I wanted to get some ideas/info from experienced women.
thank god that someone's willing to put your dick in her mouth. what's next, "i won the lottery but it was only $4 million, please help me!"
Encouragement is the key. Always encourage her and tell her exactly what you like. Praise her when she does something you really like and gently correct when she does something you don't. Practice makes perfect after all and even simply lightly grabbing her hair by the nap, looking into her eyes with a pleasured look and telling her she's beautiful, that it feels amazing will help boost her confidence. Remember also that if she's fairly new to blowjobs she needs to learn slowly as well and that simply being patient and allowing her to build her confidence and enjoyment of it is vital. Try flavored lube as well, it really helps if she enjoys the taste and though the taste of a cock can be a little to get used to for some, tip toeing into it with the use of flavored lube can help. Some examples are 69's blow me vanilla, or Doc Johnson's good head in a variety of flavors. Also throat numbing mints are a god send for those of us who aren't able to suppress our gag reflex very well. Hope this helped some.
^That. Praise is one of the best ways to let your partner know you like what they're doing. You can always tell her what you like while she's sucking. You don't have to be bossy about it, if you two aren't into that (I assume you're not). Just moan, tell her how good it feels, and say what you want her to do next.
Also, I have to ask. How are your oral skills on her? I know after a man makes me orgasm hard with his mouth, I can't wait to return the favor and make it amazing.
Thank you for the advice! Oh I was lurking on the forums a while back and I read about this slurping technique, I'm going to see if I can teach that to her. I can make her squirt from oral + finger, plus first time I sucked her pussy she told me I was the best she's ever had down there, nuff said. She's actually very willing to return me the favor, it seems to me that she feels like she can't do it well, like she's bad or idk, I think she may be thinking lots of things while she's doing it, like if that pace is ok, or if I switch and do this will he (me) like it, am I doing it right? Girls are like that, they tend to over complicate things. Anyway, thanks everyone for the replies, I think I'm going to go with jadexsilver advice.
