Seeing or being seen?

Just got to thinking: when it comes to sex, do you get more enjoyment from seeing your partner naked or them seeing you naked?
I love my wife dearly and enjoy seeing her walk around without any clothes. We’re also nudists so it’s always a great time going to a nude beach or our local resort and we’re spending the day without any clothes. It’s a turn on knowing that she’s enjoying it and doesn’t mind showing herself off.
HOWEVER - I really have to admit that I get super turned on by parading naked in front of her and letting her get a good look. And this also goes for when we’re at nudist venues and I am totally exposed to the women there, I get turned on noticing a woman seeing me in that state. But nothing is better than sex with my wife and I’m completely hard for her. I like her to know that she did that to me and I’m feeling great.

 

My wife doesn't seem to get turned on by anyone naked any longer. We go to nude resorts, beaches etc., and she just reads her books. I on the other hand love seeing and being seen by others.

She has lost most of her interest in sex, and I believe she only has sex with me because she thinks that is what she needs to do - she doesn't show any enthusiasm any longer. I'm sad about this...

 

:-(

 

With me, I think I enjoy the 'seeing' and 'being seen' equally. Why do I say that? Well, when I see my wife nude outdoors, I do get excited primarily at the thought of her being seen by someone other than me. This gets me excited to no end. Is this what is known as being a candaulist? Could be. I also really enjoy being out in the yard (or on a beach) soaking up the sun in the buff. In the yard usually means out front, but it's not quite as risky as one might think. We live rurally and there is very little traffic, thus, the risk of being seen in minimal. My neighbors know I do this and, to this point, have not objected to me or anyone else that I know of. My wife takes a 'safer' approach in that she seeks the somewhat protected area of the fenced backyard area to do her nude sunbathing (although, she loves going to nude beaches when we can). Nude beaches can be interesting just watching the eyes of those passer-byes (some textiled, some nude). There have been occasions while first walking the shore of a clothing optional beach when she'll seek out a nice hidden spot away from most of the human traffic, then there are other instances wherein she'll plop down right next to a guy and start of a conversation like she'd known him all her life. I am fascinated by these antics and, quite honestly, I never know which sunbathing wife will show up. She is very casual and calm while at CO beaches and after many visits, I understand. I think she really enjoys the eyes on that she gets and she even enjoys it more when conversations occur. Just casual stuff, not world changing thoughts at all. Clearly, she enjoys the company and the conversation, and I too, enjoy watching. These conclusions are not merely from beach visits, they've occurred many times while she was out in our backyard sunning by the pool. Some instances brought on by me, some occurred without my help. Have enjoyed them all.

 

My wife is a tattoo’ed beauty. She loves her body art and doesn’t mind showing it off. She doesn’t flaunt it, but is often ask about her body art. We are nudist as well and very comfortable in our skin. It’s very natural to look at other nudist as long as it is not viewed as starring. We are also in the lifestyle so seeing erections and perky tits is commonplace.

 

We are nudists and also exhibitionists. We both love to flaunt and show off in front of other people, and we both love to see how other people react too. We also love showing off to each to each other. We both love nude beaches and love attracting attention, we usually attract the attention of voyeurs and we also like hearing comments from passers-by. Sometimes people approach us to chat to or ask to sunbathe with us, and that can sometimes lead to a lot of fun too.

 

me are nudists mostly away from home in the case of my wife. but I'm an almost full time nudist, I walk around the house and garden nude most of the time, except in very poor weather. We only have a neighbour to one side and she is quite used to encountering me on a regular basis. she even joins us on the patio for a coffee and we just chat as normal , she never even mentions the fact that I am nude. My wife will sometimes be nude in the garden but prefers to do it away from home. But on occasion we have both been nude when people have visited or made deliveries. A few weeks ago I acted as a " nude butler" for the evening at a party my wife was attending, since then a few of her friends have called in for coffee or a chat with my wife and I have remained nude the whole time.

 

My husband says I am a woman of contradictions . His favourite saying is " Nicky loves sushi as long as it is thoroughly cooked"
To explain; as an example, I am a very shy person yet I adore being looked at ,stared at by others .
I am not an exhibitionist but if I notice someone looking I will actually "display" , it is an awesome turn on for me.
I love watching a man get an erection because he is looking at me , I love it more when I see that my husband is watching too.
One time on a beach , noticing that I had aroused someone I turned away and bent over as if to pick something from the sand. Knowing that my "goodies" were being examined by my observer I pee dribbled , deliberately.
He actually groaned out loud , which made me giggle like crazy .

 

I’m quite shy when it comes to letting someone see me naked or with a shirt off. I have no idea why but hopefully one day I will come out of my shell. And also I would have done the same thing looked stared and groaned and probably got hard

 

i love to be fully nude at a sex club and have people watch me fuck and get fucked .very hot when people get off watching my sexual pleasure

 

It seems my wife and I get equal amounts of pleasure seeing each other naked and being naked ourselves. It's a prelude to better things to soon come. Who wouldn't be pleased to be naked and see their SO naked?

 

We are a nudist and Lifestyle couple. That said, once a person realizes that nudity is empowering and freeing, it is life changing. Being around other’s regardless of body image in a non judgemental way is refreshing. Now for seeing and being seen. That is common place in the lifestyle. It becomes second nature, erotic and intoxicating. We have been watched and we have watched. It truly is a turn on for us.

 

I've never thought of it like this. I don't have much in the way of modesty; I can be modest because it was taught to me but I'd rather not be and that means taking off my clothes and enjoying not having clothes on and being seen naked... is just being seen. I'd not say that I'm a nudist but I'm not ashamed of my body and I do like looking at other naked people but, then again, I've never been weird about nudity.

 

While I love being seen…. I would give the winning points to other men seeing my wife’s t**s and full bush. The thought of my (at marriage) virgin, prudish and judgmental wife on full display always gets me hard. The best is her standing naked by a nude male and having a conversation.

 

I love seeing my wife naked, especially when she’s working around the house and her tits are jiggling or swaying depending on what she’s doing. And her sweet ass jiggle drives my nuts nuts.

 

Does she discourage the two of you doing a nude outing? Or does she give you an attitude that indicates she would just as soon clean a toilet?

 

Sometimes my lady gives me shit about, say, getting out of the shower and walking around naked and I have to remind her that I'm not a modest prude like she tends to be and I'm not walking around naked trying to get her excited - I'm just being myself; why should I be modest in the privacy of my own home and in front of someone who's seen me naked over the 17 years we've been together? People trip me out acting like they've never seen a guy in his underwear before... and be glad that I'm being nice and putting clothes on.

 

I like seeing her get naked and she knows it. We sometimes play strip games and while she LOVES to win, she knows that eventually she's going to end up naked and she loves it when I win an item from her. When she's down to her bra and panties it's especially fun because we both anticipate that it's getting close. When I win her bra she hesitates but always says that I won it fair and square and off it comes. Sometimes I've lost everything by then and she is delighted when I have nothing left to lose. If I lose another round, she'll make me do something to her. But I really want to see her get naked.

 

I feel the same way and have been to swing clubs, years ago, always a great time..

Being fully nude in a room of mostly clothed or semi clothed people is a huge turn on. Engaging in sex with an audience watching is my favorite fetish, many great memories.

 

Both.
I am very turned on by being seen, especially while masturbating. The more the merrier