Have you ever given your s/o a demonstration of how you achieve your favorite orgasms, so they can give them to you? I have watched my wife masturbate so I can learn what sets her off, just as she has asked me to masturbate for her so she can see what pushes my buttons. I believe masturbating for your s/o is very exciting. My told me that while watching me jerk off is boring and mostly a blur, watching me use a dildo in my ass while masturbating gives her a thrill and has taught her what to do, just as I have learned.:sultan: How about You?
I've been with some very inexperienced men before, so I've given some demonstrations to help them out yeah. How I like my clit rubbed, how to finger me well, and occasionally how to work my ass in a nice way as well. Sharing is caring
I have never done it for him to watch but I have guided his hands during foreplay. And made it known when he hits a good spot.