i hate them! my best friend FINALLY said she wants to smoke and ive been waiting for the day to happen, but now im starting to doubt myself. im supposed to go up to her college on tuesday after school and her, myself and her college friends are going to go to a gym class heros concert. we were thinking about smoking before the show. well i talked to her older sister before about smoking and her older sisters reaction was really bad. she ended up being parinoid and thought he had to go to the hospital. i know they are two different people but they are from the same family. i dont want that happening to her because then i wouldnt know how to calm her down. also, she likes to have a plan for verything and somewhat be in control. if she gets high, im afriad of how it will affect her. i didnt think i acted to parinoid my first time because i was drunk too. i dont know what to do! ive always wanted to smoke with her but i dont want her to have a terrible time! im really good with weed and i just relax and tend to talk a lot. but if we are at a show, maybe it will be a little better. i dont know what to do! help if ya got any ideas or opinions please
Don't go into it expecting things will go badly. This might subconciously make things take a more negative route. And for the sister thing, I wouldn't worry. My brother and I are totally different with smoking. I get really paranoid sometimes and he has never experienced paranoia or anxiety. My dad's like my brother, too. They are two different people and even though they are related, a lot more factors into how they act/think/respond. Just make sure you guys take it slow, make sure your in a safe and comfortable environment and remind your friend that you love her and she can trust you if she starts to feel weird/bad. Tell her theres no pressure to do anything she doesn't want to or to smoke more than shes comfortable smoking. IF she starts freaking out, reassure her that everything is fine and like everything else in life, the panic or paranoia she is feeling WILL pass and things WILL get better. IF she goes into a full blown freak out like it sounds like her sister did and wants to go to the hospital just talk her through it, maybe put a cool towel on the back of her neck. Just keep reassuring her that everything's fine. Good luck!
thanks, i hope everything will go well! shes awesome and i dont want her to think its bad when really its really relaxing
If you're afraid she's gonna freak, why not just have her smoke someplace a little more mellow than a show for her first time? Be somewhere she's really comfortable, with close friends, concerts can be a little hectic. But then again, it might be amazing. I tripped acid for the first time at a concert - the first time I had ever tripped on anything - and it turned out amazingly well. I suppose it just depends on the person. Good luck!
i have the highest tolerance among stoners i know and the last time my sister toked she thought she was being attacked by people with chainsaws so she hid in the closet only one way to find out if she'll get paranoid blaze the night away and if she starts freaking out tell her its just the weed and she'll be fine in a little and just comfort her through it
smoke her up once to make sure shes ok with it. I have a friend whos allergic, used to have a bf who threw up when he soked. best to be @home watching tv or a movie, you get a little less high and see how she reacts to it. Giggly? quiet? sleepy? like the 7 dwarves! thats how I learned, and I knew ahead of time that I wasn't obnoxious or allergic or anything like that. Your call tho, I would just see if shes been around it before, then she is probably not allergic. Don't be paranoid tho either, I can't stand paranoid!
instead of at the concert, we decided it will be better to do it this weekend when she comes home. she;; feel more comfortable but mow im the worried one! shes bringing her new friends over and i dont want to smoke with them! usually ill smoke with how ever but these girls rub me the wrong way at least i think
