Scared to hook up due to long inner labia!

My vagina is small, but my inner labia sort of protrudes, mainly from the top near my clit.

This guy and I have been hanging out and really want to hook up. We've made out and I've given him head and all that. He's tried fingering me, but I stopped him before he stuck his hands in my underwear!

I know he's been with other girls and watched porn, so I don't know if he'll know I'm normal. He has said I'm skinny, attractive, and have a nice body, same with other guys and girls, but I'm sort of self-conscious when it comes to my area down there.

I'm scared he'll be weirded out when he touched me there, thinking its not normal. What should I do? Advice/experience from girls or guys would be great!

 

You are normal.
If he thinks that the physical attributes of porn stars are the standard against which he should judge all women, he is a fool.

 

Yeah, I know. Despite me being a complete perfectionist, I've come to terms with my vag.

True, but some guys are just like that.

 

If he is a man, he wont be worrying about how your Va JJ looks as long as he can get to it (my 2 cents.)

 

Dude that's normal. Don't sweat it. There are all sorts of pussies on this great planet!

 

The only thing your bf is going to worry about is getting inside of it.

 

He's not my bf, though. We're just friend's and want to hook up.

I'm like DYING to go further with him, but that little piece of skin is ruining it all! :/

 

Bf or hook up, it all works out the same for your issue.

There's nothing wrong with you, if he worries about it there might be something wrong with him.

 

Im sure he'll like that skin in his mouth.. I know I would. :drool5:

 

I've read a few posts, and it seems like a lot of older guys (and only a few younger guys) like that. I'm young lol.

 

How old are you ?

 

17, so is the guy.

 

I think you're making a big deal out of nothing. He's probably worried if you'll think his dick is big enough.

 

I've been with quite a few women & all their vaginas differed in some way or another. However, one thing that they all had in common was that once they were aroused they would swell up & present themselves to wrap around my penis as it made its penetration, and when It comes down to it, that's all that matters.

 

definatley go for it, pussy's come in all different shapes and sizes and we love them all!

 

If it worries you or makes you feel unclean or something, a simple operation will take care of it. Very similar to male circumcision. Talk to your parents about it, or your doctor.

 

The girl I'm with at the moment has the smae thing. She said it bothered her too when she was young til she figured out that dudes just simply did not care or even seem to notice. I have seen twats like that many times and I think it is fairly common. The only thing I ever noticed about it is the guy has to learn to part them with his finger or tongue when doin work down there without fumbling with your vag. The girls I've been with like that are usually sensitive to rough finger play also and it needs to be done just right. your guy will figure that out but if he is a slow learner then you should be vocal or hell just show him.

 

Yeah, I know I'm totally worrying, but I over analyze stuff all the time.

My inner labia isn't even long, and it doesn't go down near my vagina really, its more big/longer near the top. That's why I'm weirded out for someone to just finger me than having sex.

 

This applies to not only the OP, but to anyone else who has issues with their image... whatever it may be.

First off... your issue, is as normal as anything else... all women are built differently, just like all men are.

More importantly though is that it doesn't matter if it was 'normal' or not.

It is who you are. Do you really see yourself never having sex with anyone because of it? If not, then why let it stop you now?

If he has a problem with it, it is his problem, not yours AND you will know for sure you shouldn't be wasting anymore time with him, either as a friend or as more.

Find someone who will like you for who you are, not who they expect you to be or who you think they expect you to be.

 

I will bet your drop dead beautiful, and as you describe your pussy. F_ _king beautiful too. Trust the men here. You've got nothing to worry about.