Same room sex! No swapping

Here it goes.

Me and my boyfriend are in a committed relationship and we are interested in trying same room sex. No swinging or swapping just having sex as a couple while watching another couple have sex in the same room as us, even same bed, but no touching of the other couple(s). We just both find it as a turn on. Anyone else interested in this too! Or have any information into finding a group scenario. I have seen sex clubs in New York City but those are manly for swingers and that's not what we want to do.

 

This is something that I have always wanted to try. I have seen ads on swingers websites for people wanting exactly this, so it shouldn't be a problem.

 

My now wife then gf. started with soft-swing. With friends, we started by skinny-dipping a few times. Once when sharing a hotel, we stayed in our separate beds, but could pretty well see everything, with low lights. Walked about the room nude. Later we tried full swap, with them. After a night of partying, too much drinking. Turned out bad, He told my gal, once they got alone he thought it was a bad idea. By the time they came in the room where, me and his wife was it was too late. Put a damper on our friendship for awhile. Later we got back together, He just didn,t like the idea they were married, and we were not.
But anyway you can go to a swingers party, just go in a room, tell people what you are interested in. Most couples are pretty cool. And no means NO. The only problems Jan had was with single guys, whom had paid too much to attend, and might be coming up empty.

 

You can probably find what you are looking for in the same place swingers are looking! We have had a fair amount of people contact us about this kind of thing in the past when we were looking for others to play with. Not our thing though so we just passed on it. For us we don't see any point in having another couple naked with us if we are not going to be playing with each other.

 

I have been in the situation where my wife and I had another person in the room as we slept. A few of those times we have needed to fuck so we tried to do so quietly, hoping the other person could not hear or know what we were doing.

But, there have usually been jokes in the morning, about "it sure was noisy in the room last night. I had a hard time getting to sleep!" which was their way of saying "I heard you fucking last night!"

And I was once the "other person" with a couple in the room. I did see the wife naked as she got in bed. Then they fucked in the dark and it got me so worked-up I had to masturbate.

 

Ah, I remember that sort of shit when I was in my teens. Let me put on my "Now An Old Man" hat on.

Fucked with another couple fucking in the same room many, many times back then. Didn't give a shit. Sometimes we'd watch the other couple and make fun of them, other times we'd get made fun of...and other times we'd just want to get the fuck implemented and completed because time was limited due to the parents coming home after an evening out. Plus, sometimes rooms are very limited when you're young and nobody has their own apartment or home.

Can't fuck in the dining room, living room, little brother's room, basement or anywhere else because there's too many people romping around socializing and making all kinds of racket with the lights on. So...it had to be in one specific room and that was it.

I got to see quite a few old schoolmates lay some pipe. And saw what some girls looked like "down there" as well, which was quite nice. By Monday at school, I'd make a new female friend and we'd chum it up like pals. After all, I saw her muff. You know...sort of unspoken friendship when your own parts are seen by others.

Okay, I'm sorta hijacking this thread. Sorry about that.

 

Being watched is definitely hot. Are you sure you wouldn't ever want to consider taking the next step and swapping partners, as you get more comfortable with the whole situation?

 

You lost me at 'commited relationship'

 

+1

I agree. Worth a shot. May not be successful immediately, but will facilitate future possibilities and that alone is worth the admission.

 

My GF is interested in this as well. She's not down with swapping, but she's okay with fucking in the same room with others who are fucking. It's normal.

 

Me and my wife were on vacation with another couple, one night we were both horny and decided to just go for it. It was hot and we didn't hide anything.

 

Me and my boyfriend keep talking about this. We really find it hot, I mean we haven't done it before but we are really trying to find a couple to do this with. I mean even on the same bed is fine with me. I just find it hot to have someone watch while my boyfriend fucks me. We watch porn a lot together so we kind of just want to take it to the next level and watch other couples right next to us. And hey who knows maybe eventually down the line we will do a full swap but as for now we just want to be in the same room, bed, chair, whatever.

 

Is anyone from jersey on this blog? Looking for a couple to get down with

 

That's definitely hot. Can I ask how you found the couple? Or did you know them already? Were new at this! Haha but it's just sooo hot to us that we need to do this!

 

It just wouldn't be any fun if you couldn't slip a finger or tongue up the other female.

 

Ohh but see that just may happen. Temptation will get the best of us eventually as long as we come home to each other and only do it with each other all is fine with me! Besides I love girls just as much as my boyfriend does so we are on the same page.

 

I'd love to have sex in the same room with another couple. But I'm thinking it would be better with a couple we know.

 

Yeah It's definitely hot to think about this and yeah I can see it may be easier with a couple you know but then again there's always the thought of ruining the friendship or something going wrong that's why I think with a stranger(s) it may be more comfortable, no judgement, no one really knows anything, and no feelings hurt in the end because you just walk away. And in a way I kinda think it would be hotter to be with people you don't even know but you both know why you are there. Idk it's a bit confusing

 

We have done this plenty of times and its so much fun. Specially in the same bed, Where we live, there are a few swinger clubs so we joined one. Pretty cool, we don't swap either so you just have to be upfront with what you are ok with and what you are not. Once that is out of the way, people usually respect those boundaries. Some clubs are better than others though. The one we like the most in a younger crowd like us 20's -40.

 

I would be down. I live near nj , in PA

 

I wish, I'd be down for that!

 

Mrs. H,

You should come!