RSVP to Rat & Rainy's Wedding

..someone should just actually get married so we can have an excuse to have a party

 

Citizenship. We would've divorced after 3 years or whatever.

Can we make this an 80s party?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua26qTEK25U"]Cutting Crew - (I Just) Died In Your Arms Tonight - YouTube

 

can I marry a second person? I actually really wish I could have my wedding all over again... it was just over ten yrs ago on the beach in Antigua...dancing to bob marley and eating lobster at a private table on the beach afterwards and was so nice... neways my whole point is... I wish I could get married just to get married again cause it was fun.



and to dev, ah, gotcha. shoulda known that. someone that used to post here married a chick to get her citizenship.

 

yes

 

Can't you renew your vows or whatever? I wouldn't mind to get married. The problem for me is finding a woman who's not batshit insane or satan's offspring.

 

awesome.

yea and I actually do wanna renew our vows sometime... at the same place... in a couple yrs... only this time write our own vows and stuff and it would actually mean more now after all we've been thru being together 14 yrs so far and all... and the fact that I was 22 then.. young...
but neways...
every single (every SINGLE ONE!!) guy ive ever known who was married and then divorced has told me they're ex was "batshit crazy"... those exact words. my one friend was married/divorced 3x and all the girls were "batshit crazy".... lol

 

oh and the thing is... I do think all women are a little crazy but I also think most women (other than the realllly crazy ones) tend to be less crazy once they hit age 30. most early 20's females are kinda nuts imo.

 

You should do it, that's a long time.

I've never been married.. never made it that far. Not that I'm perfect by any means but for reals I could tell you some stories that would make you go wtf? Part of it is I probably have the self perception that I'm damaged goods when it comes to the really 'good' girls, so I always end up dating the crazy ones. That's one theory I have. If it's true it's all unconscious. But I do tend to blow off the good girls before they start trying to change me.

 

There's good crazy and bad crazy.

Evil and vindictive - bad crazy.
Using sex to manipulate - bad crazy.
Faking that you care about someone to get what you want out of them - bad crazy..

And don't get me started on the groupie mentality.

 

But...that's the thing... the ONLY way for a relationship to work long term is for two people to not want to change the other person at all. Trust me, I've learned thru the years you either accept someone EXACTLY as they are or it can't work..... so, gotta somehow find someone not crazy who also wouldn't wanna change you... and I'm not sure why a "good girl" would wanna change you anyways... you seem to have a decent head on your shoulders.

 

wait... you added sometime and I have no clue what you mean by that... the groupie mentality? explain? cause im lost there. lol. you have groupies?

 

are you in a band or is this second hand experience with groupies?

 

Is deviate famous and we don't even know it? I wonder now who is moonlighting as "deviate" here... ???? hmmmmm

 

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm............

if deviate is famous I'm going to be his groupie

 

Will you pay for everything

 

Well yeah, that would be the basis of a healthy relationship. And I do have a good head on my shoulders. I'm a little rough around the edges at times, hard partying borderline self destructive. That's what I mean by good girls, they don't want their man doing that.

But get this, one of my girlfriends told me I work too hard. Because I couldn't go trip every weekend at festivals.. now I see her a few years later and she's like you bought a house?! Damn I have nothing to show for myself like that.

 

me too...depending on who he really is ha

not sure who you are talking to but it doesn't matter because... didn't you say you were paying for it all for all of us? yes, yes, I believe you did.

 

Enjoy the partying as hard as you do though now because once you do have kids that is over pretty much.
and yea.. I was just saying I think you handle it well... like it doesn't effect your life ...

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=59vSnF26k9k"]Does it offend you, yeah? - Dawn of the Dead - YouTube

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tf92q6Vrj2o"]Sara Bareilles - Bottle It Up - YouTube