I just wanted to see what you forum junkies make of this. So my room mate and close friend brings this guy home after a date and he starts to flirt with me and we start making out, and than my room mate comes back into the room and she got mad at me. was i so wrong in doing it? i mean he was the one flirting with me. anyway we made up but what do you think? im all about free love and stuff but she isnt
I think that's something you shoudl talk with your roommate. Personally I'd be pissed too, that was someone I was interested in, I'd spent time with. Yes he was flirting with you but you are wholly capable of saying no.
Free love is cool....but..there are lines that shouldnt be crossed , and one of them is you dont mess with someone's date...or partner . I dont care if the person flirts...but , you dont cross over the line into actual making out...its not right. You should have said no..and left it at that.
completely inappropriate. that's not free love, that's called not being a friend. clearly she brought him over for a reason and i highly doubt it was for you to make out with. if i had been in her shoes i would have been furious. feed your ego by picking up your own, don't take from others!
i guess you are right, shes totally cool about it now, and i guess from what she told me the guy was gay so it wasnt going to go anywhere with them anyway edit: i forgot to add it was a blind date and on the way back to the apartment she found out he was gay and she was pretty pissed because she hasnt had a boyfriend or partner in a few years
so he's gay, but he's going on blind dates and making out with random girls. sounds like a real catch for both of you.
I agree with erzebet here. The most important thing in free love is that you should get the consent of any of the partners involved in the situation. You could possibly get permission from some before hand, before they even bring someone around next time. I'm into free love also, but I'm single at this time. In a relationship, I'd be most comfortable with my female partner enjoying others:drool: (or maybe not be present every time):H , with some exceptions where I may join in. I know you didn't ask for that, but I have no other free love friends my age to express my ideas with. Thanks anyway..... bye.. P.S. Most importantly, you made peace with your friend and discussed the situation.
