Romantic sex?!

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by paintitblack, Nov 4, 2005.

  1. paintitblack

    paintitblack Member

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    we have all seen romantic sex in the movies ( at least in romantic comedies) the kind of sex that usually takes place in bed and usually guy is on top or a girl but no rough stuff, no dirty talking or spanking or pulling hair. nice and easy, beautiful romantic sex.

    It Does Not Work For Me! Am i the only one? i have tryed, i have, but it doesn't turn me on, it is impossible to have orgasm that way.. i get bored and that's all (well i usually even get angry)

    So, am i the only one or is it normal?
     
  2. Nolan14

    Nolan14 Member

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    if your the romantic type it works great, i like it sometimes but usually spank her just a lil bit. I can do both, freaky naughy or romantic sweet caring, i like both equally
    depends on the couple and the situation i guess
     
  3. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    for me the romantic stuff IS the naughty stuff...
     
  4. innocentpoison333

    innocentpoison333 Member

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    Hmm I like romantic sex, its very personal and tender....however I know someone who has the same problem (although I dont think it is a problem)...She can only get off if the sex is the kinky type, rough sex. Different things turn people on it's perfectly normal.
     
  5. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    I like both. Depends on my mood and my partner's mood. Too much of one can definitely be problematic for me
     
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  7. adrian nor

    adrian nor Member

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    U like actionful casual sex. I like both that and romantical sex. As long as it's hot!
     
  8. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Maybe you've just never felt an intensly deep connection with your partner.

    I've been with my husband nearly 10 years, and although we have a lot of "sexy" sex, we also have the romantic loving variety as well. The kind that is so moving that it brings you to tears when you collapse in each other's arms afterwards. The kind that makes you feel so deeply in tune, in love with one another, that it makes you feel absolutely beautiful, inside and out.
     
  9. paintitblack

    paintitblack Member

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    yes, thank's for your comment :) i think i might have somekind of a mental block. or maybe i need 'sexy' sex to feel sexy enough
     
  10. Nolan14

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    if u cant have romantic sex how r u beter than a monkey or a mountain vole? (prarie voles even have romance in sex) if its not romantic its no better than porno and thats bs
     
  11. gruvenmama420

    gruvenmama420 *sweet sugga mama*

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    i havent had romantic sex in... *counts fingers*...oops outta fingers
     
  12. aarn321

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    I want my first time, if not every time, to be romantic.
     
  13. diamondsontheinside

    diamondsontheinside Member

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    lets see... my first time was really romantic. and i loved it, because i was so deeply in love with that guy and i really felt like we were making love and not just having sex. he was really caring about it, paying attention to me and making it such a beautiful experience for me. eventually we started having "sexy" sex, but romantic still remained my favorite for a long time. but now i dont really get off from it. i think part of it is that since i've been with him, i haven't ever really felt the same way about my partners as i did him. i think for it to be orgasmic and an all over great experience, the connection is definatly a must. thus said... i hope you find someone who can rock your world with romantic sex someday.
     
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