Being and older guy in sexless marriage , leaves only a couple of options, Cheat, try Bi or deal with it and jerk off until you die. Ever wondered about trying Bi, but you didn't know where to turn? You don't trust anyone that you don't know and you wouldn't ask or tell your friend about your desires. Your best friend could have the same feelings that you do, but you may never know. Has anyone breached this barrier and discussed it with a close friend. How did you approach the subject? Did it ever go wrong?