Retired and enjoy Bi with Buddy

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by topper, Aug 18, 2021.

  1. topper

    topper Member

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    Since our wifes are finished with sex, they left it up to us . The most logical choice came from my friends wife.
    She said that we should just do each other and get it over with. My wife agreed with her.
    Neither of us is into guys. We are just 2 old farts, who are constantly horny. At this stage in our lives, it doesn't matter anymore, whatever we do.
    We have taken them up on it and are like old friends again, only we suck each others cocks. Both wives know. We are both down the shore and usally get together on my boat.
    Here's the funny thing. We would both eat up another woman like she was a dog treat, but the hot chicks arent searching for horny old guys. Since our wives know that we have done it, they have no idea just how much we have done it. We are both satisfied with our choices and now casually meet up for a quickie, or maybe not so quickie

    Do you feel that you can share comfortably like that?
     
  2. Windman

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    With my wife? No, she would leave me in a heartbeat. Which a friend with bennies? Absolutely.
     
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  3. LowHangers

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    Yes, we can. I have three buds I get together with for oral sex. We're all in our 50's. One is regular twice a week and the other two maybe once a month. Tom's wife, and mine encourage us to satisfy each other knowing he and I enjoy sucking cock more often than the two of them do. My other two buds are single.
     
  4. Well I'm curious

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    That's great, it's good they don't mind.
    It seems strange that a couple of old wives tell their husbands to do it with their mates.

    It's just sex and if you are good with it great.

    As for hot young chicks who wouldn't be into them if they were an option.

    What would the wives think if there were other women on the go?

    They don't mind you doing it with your mate, I'm not against experimenting with a guy bit wishes I'd have tried younger when I was a little slimmer etc.not that I'm big but to be young and free.

    How far have you gone with your mate, would the wives have boundaries or do they think you are just a pair of old cocksuckers and that's ok?

    Any bi curiosity or experience in the younger days?
     
  5. Daretobare

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    I'm retired and my friend is retirement age but likes working. Our wives don't know of our occasional rendezvous but we both agree we wish our wives knew and approved. I'm sure we'd get together more often
     
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  6. topper

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    I wish.. They are both done with sex ,except for being voyeurs. Sex doesn't mean anything anymore to them. The wiives are both over 70 too and don't want to be bothered with it anymore. No jealousy. At this point, do what you can without dying from it.
     
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  7. LowHangers

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    Only one of the three guys I suck with has fucked me in the ass numerous times with both our wives present. I'd allow the other two to do so but neither of them have made mention of wanting to do so and one of these days I will most likely as them if they'd like to. I've spoken of a threesome with each individually and all of them liked the idea so I think when that takes place I'll see if they'd like to gang-bang my ass at that time.
     
  8. maturemale3346

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    Seems more and more of us 'mature' guys are in this situation. Makes me feel more comfortable about the desires I've had for years
     
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  9. steve smith

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    Hi Same here. I been with a few guys . Mainly getting blown by them or me giving them a handjob. I want to suck a cock and learn how to give a bj but I cannot find the right guy.
     
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  10. maturemale3346

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    I'm surprised you are having trouble finding someone to suck. Usually the opposite for me - they want head, but won't return the favor.
     
  11. topper

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    Other women are not allowed , but both of our wives said we could suck each other all day long.
    Never had a thought about it when younger. Plenty of sex with women, so it was a thought at all. I have no interest in other men. For us, lifelong friends, we are just helping each other out.
    I have been fucked and have fucked our old gay friend in the past. Neither of us is looking to fuck each other, at least hasn't mentioned it and I didn't .
    We have given each other bjs, with the wives watching, both in person and on security camera on the boat. That was fun , as the wives cheered us on as we blew each other.
    Look, we are ,all of us too old to give a shit about any kind of hangups. The pleasure and fun of giving each other bjs, outweighs any lablels.
     
  12. LowHangers

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    Tom and I have looked at it this way for the past 11 years since today our wives encourage us to keep each other from needs.
     
  13. Marriedbicouple

    Marriedbicouple Impatient for some FWB

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    I used to and want to again badly. I really enjoyed just having a special buddy for fun anything the mood struck us! Now I'm married and wife has encouraged it cuz she wants to watch and play too!
     
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  14. Marriedbicouple

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    That sounds amazing! My wife isn't done with sex we r only in our 40's but want to share new things.
     
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  15. topper

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    Be happy and enjoy the pleasures together while you can. Doing it together and sharing is one of the best aspects of it.
     
  16. Well I'm curious

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    Do you think the wives would approve of you fucking each other?

    I actually want to be fucked, if I had multiple hookups I would fuck the other guy but at 49 I've never sucked a cock or been fucked.

    These are things I want to try. Im open to the idea just need an accomplice.

    Do you think you guys will go there? Maybe your mates shy or he would happily fuck you but doesn't want to bring it up, maybe he's not willing to be fucked in return or maybe he's craving cock.

    Hey of you are sucking each other off it's still sex, if you enjoy fucking each other write about it. Oh I mean it doesn't matter you are already sucking cocks so fucking the guy is just the same guy you are having oral sex with.
     
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  17. LowHangers

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    My wife approves of our man fucking me in the ass, she's not into anal sex. His wife has asked her husband to allow me to fuck him in the ass but he's just not into it but he does allow me to fuck his wife in her ass. We're all good with it. He may some day ask me to fuck him but I'm leaving that up to him. He and I have been regularly sucking each other off for the past 11 years and it's been a great relationship. My wife and I feel he's just not ready to give up his dominant role and submit yet and I'm just fine with that. He see's how much I enjoy it when he fucks me so maybe in time he may desire to feel the pleasures I have been feeling.
     
  18. slayer3737

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    I'm single again and always on the lookout for a FWB. My breakup was just a couple months before the first lockdown, so it's been hard, and I just got together with one guy twice last September. But that didn't work out. But even outside of the pandemic, I think I would prefer to just have one fuck buddy, someone to share both friendship and sex with. I'm not interested in dating women at this time (it was a very difficult relationship with that woman, and one in which I couldn't stop thinking about M2M sex). I really just want to re-explore the gay part of myself. I think I am even more open and receptive to that within myself. I've never had romantic feelings for another guy, but I fantasize about that as well. But at the very least, I would love to have a single friend to get together with many times a week to make love to each other's bodies.
     
  19. LowHangers

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    It can happen, it did for me 11 years ago. He and I regularly get together weekly for mutual blow jobs while still having a sexual relationship with our wives.
     
  20. Poplo.

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    Retired (open marriage) and bi...........Used to have a bi friend but not now. My wife has a boy friend who she see's often....and has mfm often with friends of ours.
     
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