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gone from hocd to bisexual, to accpeting i am gay now, and i feel fine about it all my fantasies are about men, and i mean like cock sucking anal sex. but still cant understand why i chased women then

 

ive read your posts on here and you seem like you really struggled with this so well done mate!! so have you done it with a bloke yet? you chased girls cuz thats what guys are 'meant' to to do, you were just doing what everyone else was doing, you didnt really no any better as thats what you were doing for years, if that makes sense?!

 

charlie huh??? lol

 

yeah it aint my name its a saying i just find really funny, i dunno why!

 

lol u so mean lol

 

i am so confused cause i know i still like women, because i still wank to staright porn, one minute i am that way then i am not, my head is everywehere

 

UKpokerplayer - I get off to straight porn too and I'm gay. But I also get off to gay porn too It's good that you're accepting yourself as gay, but I'm sorry to hear you're feeling confused. Maybe give it some more time?

And dominico...Are you creating multiple accounts and having conversations with yourself?

 

I'm gay but get off on straight porn aswell, the guys are always hotter lol

 

but i dont want to be gay, i feel it aint for me guys, i mean no offence but i dont want to be sticking my cock up a man

 

I dont think anybody wants to be gay but you kinda just have to accept it, its taken me a long time and im still quite uneasy about telling people, ive told like 5 people and they dont care about it at all but it still bugs me. Have sex with another guy when your a bit drunk and you'll be fine lol!

 

uk I know just how you feel man when I was coming to grips with this I spent six months trying to deny it then I ended up talking about it on here and shit now I can't go a day with out getting into my bfs pants

and fuck no I don't want to be gay it would be a hell of a lot easier to be strait course I wouldn't change it for the world but you know sexuality isn't something we have a choice about its like your parents your born with em' yeah we can fight it but in the end fighting who you are is a losing battle but if in your heart you don't think your gay then the reasons why you think your strait need to be examined

I also think right now your scared nervous and above all overwhelmed so just open your mind search your heart and and eventaly you can find the answer cause your the only one that has that anwser

O and P.S. theres more to being gay than anal sex so once again open your mind and search your heart

 

i am sorry but alot ov people that aer gay, are happy being gay. have u ever had sex with a girl,

 

so how do i open my heart what are the signs i am looking for, i am obbessing over it everyday 24/7, has anyone who has replied to me ever gotten hard with women or had sex with women

 

i've had sex with a fair few women and i will again if she is really hot lol.
i mean im hardly exstatic to have sexual urges for men but i do and im cool with it now and ive accepted myself for who i am. before my first time with a man i was praying that id have sex with a man and that it would be revolting and make me realize that lady love was all i wanted. but no,i loved it, i loved how another guys body felt against mine and the sex was amazing. i have slept with girls since and i still love it too.
you need to stop stressing about it seriously, u might make yourself ill just chill and try to be happy with yourself yeah?

 

Yeah I stressed about it for a lonnnnng time, 24/7 like you, and it sucked. so accepted it and be happy again

 

like these two said man don't worry dude your still the same person either way

O and Ccharlie I was the same way hoped I'd vomit and get this "perverted urge" out of my system but shoot it felt more right than anything I ever felt

 

so what felt right about it, are u all bisexual then, i dotn know the thought just disgusted me then it appealed to me, could i be curious

 

Im bi but i lean towards guys more. sorry but you said in your 1st post that ur gay now ur saying ur curious?? sort it out man!!
the thought of sex with a dude made me wretch and hoped that havin sex with 1 would turn me right of it but it didnt, something inside me just clicked (not literally lol) i was like wow that was good and im not gonna feel bad or deny myself of something i like!

 

No, we're not all bi

Just have a long think to yourself, what is the part that 'disgusts' you, how much of it has to do with the way you're trained by the other 95% or so of the population. Or when it comes to the crunch, how much of it is fear of losing your manliness if you are seen with a guy.

You dont have to put labels on it, although if you were exclusive gay you'd know by now.

You could be bi

Or you could be just a guy that likes woman most of the time but have the urge once in a blue moon to play with another guys cock - plenty of them

Or, we are told guys are visual creatures, which is a load of horseshit. Maybe you're just a guy that gets turned on by touch more so than visual cues


Anyway, when it comes to sex, babies, hormones, just about every word out of a humans mouth is a load of crap. Don't listen to the rest of the population when it comes to applying labels, the vast majority of them don't go their whole lives not experimenting with the other side, the vast majority dont end up being monogamous (Girls just as much as the boys, just that the girls are a lot sneakier about it). The lies are perpetuated to protect loved ones. This is not a negative view, its the truth, in the end its time and boredom thats going to get you

 

Drunk sex is ok i mean thats how i started a fling / small relshionship with a guy but for better and more meaning full sex then. (as said in other posts) get to know the dude then see how it goes from there.