Just kidding. But seriously, I'd appreciate your input. I just left my boyfriend and am starting to talk to other guys. I'm not really trying to date anyone yet, just have some fun. But I've realized it'd be a good idea to decide what I really want before I start dating again, you know? So, what are your deal breakers? What are your deal makers?
Deal Breaker - stuck up, close minded, attention whore Deal Maker - can hold a conversation, sense of humor, drinks her liquor straight
Before deciding what qualities to look at in re: your next boyfriend, you should decide what you want out of your dating relationship(s). Are you looking for a life mate, the father of your children? Or are you looking for a date to take you to fun and exciting places? Or.... The kind of guy you are looking for would depend on what you want to do with that guy.
Deal breakers - ignorant, close minded, someone who thinks they are the sexiest dude/chick on the planet aka my ex Deal makers - instant connection, good personality, interesting, someone who can hold an intelligent conversation without getting annoyed at differing points of view
Dealbreakers are still dealbreakers whether I'm looking for just someone to date or someone to spend my life with, genious.
everything is a positive and its put up against a negative. if the positives outweigh the negatives then you have yourself a relationship. i guess writing that makes me realize mine... deal breaker, no vagina. deal maker, more positives then negatives.
It's not about positives and negatives, people. Deal breaker means that unless the person were to change that deal breaker, there would be no relationship of any kind. Deal breakers are thing you are in no way going to deal with, tolerate, or let slide. For example, I would never date a racist person. I wouldn't date someone that won't support me and the things I do. I'm looking for answers like that. Deal breakers are no if, ands, or buts about it. I mean, how do you people not understand this concept? I'm not stupid, by the way. I don't need or want you input if you're just going to be a smartass about it. I'm in no way trying to being rude to any of you. Just a little disappointed in the simplicity of your answers. Put some thought into it, damn.
deal breakers: pussy little bitches who never go outside. assholes. loudmouths. bar flies and/or excessive drinkers. Someone who is bitchier than me and surprisingly there are a lot of guys out there who are bitchier than me. deal makers: funny, kind, quietly and confidently masculine (as opposed to someone who needs to prove their masculinity constantly), smart
"Deal-breaker" is a bit too binary to be useful when evaluating relationships. A quality like "has a job" may be interesting in both those situations, but have less import in the dating situation. But if you don't want to look to what you want from your relationship/partner ....
