Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Autentique, May 25, 2004.

  1. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

    Since January I've been in a relationship with this guy. We used to be friends, and have a lot of friends in common and things just started to grow between us, until we became a couple. Everything is great, I mean I love him, he loves me.. we get along pretty well, we had great experiences together but with time things have turned more and more serious.

    I mean ok before him.. I was crazy, I used to do all these crazy things, and I had lots of fun doing them, and it was a part of who I am, now I have left all those things behind because he doesn't really like them, and it isn't something I need to do, but more of I want to. The thing is I feel like I'm changing, becoming someone else. I miss my crazy self sometimes, I feel great being with him, but sometimes Is like man lets do something different. And I try making him a part of the things I do, but he just wants to be with me, nobody else.. and well he's the only person I love and really want to be with, but still I like mixing things up, and fooling around, playing things up a bit. I mean Sharing is Caring... fun for everyone.

    But no he's not really into it, he believes if he's with me is with me only, and I try to explain that I'm not with them.. just having fun and experimenting (I'm talking about girls) but still he gets all jealous.

    So I was thinking I should have a convo with him about that, but I fear he might like not want to be with me anymore or something like that, so I'm kinda confused.

    I like the idea of being in love, and with one person, but sometimes I think I'm young I need to get crazy sometimes and have a lil' fun.
  2. Its a very good idea to talk to your boyfriend about it-you are you, and he has to accept it. If he loves you, he should love just about everything about you:)
  3. U are a little bitch! Y would u say someting like that! Jess hasent changed, u have. Go burn in hell, and stop posting that nastyass shit about u and Dan Koller! Noone wants 2 read that!
  4. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

    ok... what was that about??? :confused:
  5. misc

    misc Member

    Lol.. I hope that was a joke.
  6. taht was not a joke, this girl, cheated on me with some guy named dan koller while I was in summer camp, like a 9 months or so after we broke up, I asked her feriend out, and this jealous bitch decides to put propaganda up against her for that.
  7. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

    Wow, thanks for reminding me what high school was like...
  8. sugrmag

    sugrmag Uber Nerd

    Talk to him. If he doesn't want the relationship to be that open, then it's probably not going to work, I'm sorry to say. You have conflicting views. You shouldn't try to change him, and he shouldn't try to change you. I hope things work out for you! (ignore the troll trying to stir up shit)
  9. meishka

    meishka Grease Munky

    so u hunt girls down on the internet to make asses out of them. interesting. and she cheated , big woop dee doo,it was bound to happen, ask her freind out after that kind of break up? i pity the fool. girl, never date your best friend. it'll fuck up your friendship and relationship.
  10. ArtLoveMusic

    ArtLoveMusic Senior Member

    i've been in slightly similar situations... and to be honest you are young and i live by the "live for the moment" route. it doesnt mean u dont love him, and if it means u have to go yor own ways ... the great thing is youve come out of it with wonderfl memories and nothings worth more than that.
    my advice, dont try and change him, if he decides to accept it then great if not... theres nothng u can do but be yourself.
  11. Um, Dave? Breathe. Slowly. Good. Everyone's happy in the end ~ that's all that matters. Well, that and no one got killed. Which, knowing us, is suprising. Goosefaba. Goosefaba.

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