As you can probably tell by my username, sex matters a great deal to me. I've never had sex with a guy before, and after all these lonely years I'm sick and tired of waiting! But at the same time, I also want a loving relationship with a sweet guy who treats me right. I'm sick of being alone. A one-night-stand would be great and all, but then I'd be back to my old miserable lonely self the next day. :'( Why can't I just have BOTH? Like, a loving relationship, with a total horndog boyfriend who fucks me every day, but also cares about me? X//3 But how would I even FIND something like that? I've tried dating sites for YEARS, and practically nothing ever came of it. I don't know if I'm doing something wrong, of if I just don't know what I'm SUPPOSED to be doing. All I know is I can't stand waiting anymore. I want a guy who's not afraid to rush things. How would I find a guy like that?
Ones that are actually gay will avoid those sites becuase they are full of bi guys They will put on the act, tell you they are gay, how hard it is being 'out' Then a whole bunch of excuses as to why you can never go over their place, the real reason usually being they are married with kids. Something like grindr at the most, so you can then meet up in a cafe 10 mins away, stay.away from 'gay' sites Otherwise, stick to real life, be obvious, talk and flirt in the supermarket, cafe, queue.at.a.train stattion, whatever
Do you have any girlfriends who have relationships that are similar to what you want? Ask them, both for introduction to guys they think would be good for you and for dating tips.
