Hi there heres my storey. I've been with my boyfriend for 20 months We love each other i know this as we've been through alot and worked it out. But i've started to have to hint for sex and when i tell him just right out that i want sex i just get told to go to sleep. Im lucky if i get sex once every 2 weeks. Now im starting to feel as if im being a pest. its making me highly insecure which i already am due to the fact i picked up 3stone in a space of 4 months due to horrible contraception messing my hormone's. plus im not very busty at all. Am i mad. he say's he's not bored of me. I know he's not cheating on me becuase we spend all our time togeather i meet him from work ect (thats his choice). Am i wrong for thinking im becoming a sex addict?
you're not a sex addict, his libido has dropped Has he had more stress in his life as of late? Usually that's the biggest culprit behind a guy's libido dropping. Talk to him about why he doesn't want sex And try romancing him... don't necessarily expect sex afterwards, but cook him a romantic dinner, do the candlelight thing, make him feel loved and appreciated however works for him
It's more like the lack of stress. although he's not happy at his job. Im 20 be 21 in Nov He's just turned 25 He's just had a 2week holiday and the only time it's happened was 2 days ago. He Drinks alot to. The dinner part i know he won't like. I just walked out of my job so i can't even take him out for dinner as he only likes romantic dinners in resturants.
How about you two going somewhere for a romantic weekend? and I'm sure he'd appreicate you cooking his favourite meal wouldn't he?
