Recently, I have come to find out that my partner has been torn in a number of places inside her vaginal area, after a visit with the gynocologist. We have been sexually active now for almost two months now, but have never had an occurance this severe. We both believe it was due to my size, so we stopped any sexual activity for a week. After a week passed we couldn't hold out any longer. At first when we started again she felt a small pain, and it quickly disappeared. We started again the next day, and the pain was back. So we are now taking another break. Up until the recent tearing we would usually go at it everyday of the week. She had experienced soreness the returning day, but it was usually minor. So heres my questions, woman have you had a partner that was above average that you were readily sexually active with? Did you ever get to the point where you accomadate his size without post-soreness? Every girl that have sex with in the past has experienced the same soreness, never a problem with tearing. But the awful soreness the next day... I try to tell her this, so she does not believe the problem lies in her. But I have never had a partner that would want it daily, so the sorness was usually gone the next time we did anything.