Seems to me that a lot of "men" here watch porn all day thinking its reality and that all girls should do anal, shave, do golden showers, quick sex, gang bangs, eat shit, rimming, pedophilia, eat cum and what else... Get real, those women are paid to do it. A real hippie would not endorse films that humiliate women like that and those things are not natural, its not love and certainly not good for your health.
ge see real women at hippiegoddess.com BUT "real" hippies starred in a lot of those films back in the day. Wave One was about breaking down the Eisenhower years' grey flannel sexual hang ups. So free love became an ideal in the subculture and liberal became libertine, and the pendulum swings again.
porn is for entertainment use only... just dont expect real women to really do the shit the porn stars do... ladylocks is right!
Everyone knows the girls in porn are just acting....I think most men know of coarse, but all they wish is to have that extra pleasure with there women.
One could also say that women ought not to expect the seduction and steam they read about in romance novels - again, fantasy. But if women enjoy these books, who am I to tell them not to read them, just because I don't understand the allure? Likewise, the women who chastise men for having a healthy sex drive and enjoying porn are not men themselves and may not understand how the male sex drive works. As for women and men (or two of either) getting together, anyone who is lucky enough to have a partner who will act out their fantasies, sexual or otherwise, should not be chastised for having the fantasies in the first place as long as it's all consensual. Plenty of people enjoy anal sex, shaving, golden showers, "quickies", rimming, devouring the bodily fluids of others and oh yeah, even steamy romance.
I agree with Hanzo. My boyfriend and I love porn. Him more than me of course. Women fantasize about the romantic stuff, hot lusty passion while men, at times, fantasize about gang banging and hot blow jobs. Both are 100% normal and acceptable. It's when it comes down to demanding it from your partner that is not acceptable! There is a reason we call these "fantasies", that's all it should be; unless, as Hanzo said, it is consensual!
I don't see anything wrong with porn. People enjoy fantasies, and for the daring, things done in porn can give them ideas about how to make their own sex lives more interesting. I'm not endorsing shit like pedophilia and the like, but things done in pornos aren't always as "bad" as you're making them out to be. I think men and women realize that porns aren't reality...but what harm is it in wishing for some of the things to be done in your actual love life (of course, if it's consensual). And as for "real hippies" not endorsing those things...what do you think all "real" hippies endorse...unshaven missionary-style sex? lol. Someone who is able to be that free with their body sounds like someone comfortable with who they are...and that sounds pretty "hippyish" to me...
I think porn can be good and bad. I use it with my man to stir up some extra arousal. Men are naturally aroused more by sight. Some of those girls do things that I just can't! So it's nice once and a while to use it. When men (and women- guys aren't the only people who can get hooked on porn, you know) start watching all the time and don't want to hae sex unless it's on or starts expecting you to be like those girld is when a problem arises and they need a good reality check. and when it comes to what "real" hippies are supposed to do, I guess I can count myself out because I can appreciate beauty and the body and watch people be totally free with their sexual being. Can you make a list of what hippies can and cannot do? Just so everyone knows because you seem to know exactly what makes a person a hippie. Sorry, I just can't stand people who stereotype. Live and let live, ya know?
