Reality/fantasy

So I’m 40, married for 15 years and I’ve been bicurious since I was in my late teens. A couple years ago I met up with a guy and gave him a blowjob. After all those years of intense bisexual fantasies I really did like it. If it was someone I knew better I would have like to went further.
I certainly don’t worry about my sexuality as I’m not even attracted to guys but sex with a guy is still something I fantasize about. I watch and orgasm to both bi and gay porn.
Here’s my quandary....today for example I saw a man and woman, both attractive, and I was playing it out in my head...sex with her or him and I had absolutely no desire to do anything with him. She on the other hand I could have spent hours being dirty with. The thing is, it’s like that every time I play that game in my head. When I’m out in a crowd I think to myself find a guy and imaging having sex with him and I can’t do it. I get online and talk to guys, look at pictures, watch porn and even met a guy for sex and have a great time.
Anyone else have an issue like this?

 

My issue is it hasn't happened for me.

I'm not exactly attracted to the guys but the thought of sexual experimentation with no strings.
The physical sensation of those acts.
I almost always see women I find attractive, on TV or in the street.

Guys, yeah I can see why women would look at fit, toned, etc same as we like women with great figures .

If a young guy in good shape wanted to hook up that would be more desirable than say an average middle age guy like me.

I have seen a few photos of cocks and some seem nicer than others. Then I have a thing for shaved or trimmed genitals.

If I hooked up could I choose from a dick pic alone? Dunno, I have been near a guy.

 

sometimes I think a fantasy is ideal. less risk or potential for unintended consequence's. It still is a strong desire that i flame when possible.

 

Fantasy is fun and in our mind, no-one needs to know except our friends here.

Problem is many of them have tried these things,

There are things I would try if there are no consequences.

You only live once and if you are open to trying something and no-one is hurt then it might be nice to know .

 

I'm open to giving a try to handling a penis. Having mine would be great too. It would have to be a slow process for me.

 

I felt this way many years ago when I acted upon my curiosities about cock...stroking and sucking on them. I too was mesmerized by the sight of sexy cocks in porn and wondered if they were within the general public. Well, Craig's List back then made that a reality for me as so many guys were posting photos of there cocks. Many had me masturbating to them as I posted replies. I never cared or desired to see what the guy looked like, I wanted that sexy cock. I've hooked up with so many guys over the past 30 years...70% were not seriously attractive men (IMO) but they had the most gorgeous cocks that I wanted to orally satisfy. I'm all about the cock unlike women...I'll suck the ugliest man on earth if he's got a big sexy cock. However, I have hooked up with some younger guys that were (according to women) drop dead sexy as hell. Well fit, nice set of AB'S, and very sexy ass to grab a hold of while on your knees and deep throating his cock to his balls as he grabs the back of your head to release his load of cum in your mouth.

 

I share this with you guys. I'm middle-aged. 42. Married, kids. Never done anything with a guy. Wife is not adventurous.

I'm been curious to make a guy cum. handle a penis and just be in control of that pleasure.

Obviously would prefer a younger guy, experimenting, a bit reserved, that would enjoy someone playing with him, but at this point that may be too hard to get.

 

I am not attracted to guys but have always wanted to have some fun with a cock.To get round this I found a lovely TS escort and loved it!

 

A lot of men who are just starting out with actual bisexual behavior are genital-focused. That is not unusual for a man. As a matter of fact, some men remain genital-focused all their lives, even with their wives. And then they wonder why their wives eventually tire of sex.

But, for those bisexual men who have the capacity for appreciating a whole person sensually, eventually they meet a man who connects with them in a profound way, and then their fantasy boundaries expand beyond their initial social conditioning.

 

agreed...but nice genitals are really hot.......esp along with a nice body and personality.

A hard uncut cock pointing at me is so
irresistible!

Simon

 

It’s a slippery slope. I started with the same curiosity and then gave into it, you know just once to see what it was like. And then another and then I developed a liking for it.

 

Exactly what happened with me.

 

And this is what I'm craving!

 

Mmmm, me too

 

I'm sure a lot of men on this forum have heard at least some women express their distaste for being objectified, which usually means being regarded as a separate entity that is being used mainly for pleasure purposes. Being lovers to some people means transcending this whole notion of existing as separate entities, even if it takes place for relatively short period of time in the early stages of a relationship.

A lot of women object to men rating them on the basis of the appearance alone, and that goes for men, also. I've seen other threads on this web site that discuss attraction to certain types of "body parts", but really it's the whole person that matters with a true lover. Discussions about "body parts" seems kind of ghoulish to me, in a Jeffrey Dahmer sort of way.

Closeness and affection with another person are deeply programmed needs for most humans, and the desire for that union can become as much a part of your fantasy life as "a big hard cock" or another body-part-related fetish. .

 

I could never go with a man in reality, but watch porn of men masturbating and cuming is a real turn on, I like fantasing of easing a T girls panties down and feeling her warm cock to masturbate her, and taking her cock in my mouth but she would have to look like a girl, does anyone else have fantasies about this,

 

Of course, I would totally go for that. All feminine looking and also has a big sexy cock...Oh YEAH!

 

Oh, dear! You mean like this? I'm rather feminine-looking, I think, and I do have breasts that look quite like those I've portrayed here. I admit my cock, also known in shemale style as my "big clitoris," isn't very long as men's cocks go--but I do think it's rather sexy, especially in my semi-sheer panties! It's quite hard; I hope it's not considered too daring to let men see it here!

 

Nice!

 

on ho, i don't mind at all, I love seeing tranny porn, only been with one once but want to do more with them