So I was at a party a while ago and saw one of my (girl) friends smoking, we're 18 and innocent enough,( I thought). This was news to me, and, not gonna lie, it hurt me that she'd do that to herself. We were together years ago, and have remained close. I thought I knew her, but now I'm doubting more n more. To top issues, now I think its acc made me realise how much I love this girl. And I do seem to love her. Any ideas on what to do/say, both about the smoking, n my feelings? I had planned to talk to her, but am piss-scared. Thnx
Thats an easy one . Ask her out for a coffee . If your looking for a reason say there is something on your credit card statement that you dont understand and want her advise . Basically make an excuse up for seeing her I have done that on a couple of occasions .
Be blunt, tell her you really like her but you don't like the fact she is smoking,, let her know if she wants to be with you she needs to stop
Just talk to her. Let her know how you feel. Just be confident in what you want to talk about with her & because she probably will be interested in you. Good luck & keep us posted on how it went or tell us privately.
Get back in regular contact with her. Eventually leading up to letting her know how you feel emotionally toward her. Don't mention your dislike to her smoking until after you've made her experience heaven in bed.
Just be real with her. I'm very real wherever and whatever I do and It's always proven to be a good thing.
There's always a dude that will be up front,no second prizes,better to say how you feel and worry later...the smoking is a whole'nother thing,you could always wait for miss wonderful to arrive
